Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

A recording of Wayne’s funeral mass can be found at this link: https://youtu.be/2VCPwADvwBw

Wayne Rupiper, age 90, of Roselle, IA, died October 9, 2021, at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, October 15, 2021, at Holy Angels Catholic Church in Roselle. The Celebrant will be Fr. Steve Brodersen. Music will be by Joan Schettler and the Holy Angels Choir. Mass Servers will be Lauren Gehling and Aubrey Behrens. Lectors for the Funeral Mass will be Gina Graw, Angie Macke, and Lauren Rupiper. Gift Bearers will be Gina Graw, Bailey Rupiper, and Lauren Rupiper. Eucharistic Ministers will be Charlene Rupiper and Kathy Rupiper. Casket Bearers will be Jacob Schultes, Nic Rupiper, Mitch Rupiper, Chase Rupiper, Miles Rupiper, Jack Gottschalk, Taylor Rupiper, and Tanner Rupiper. Burial will be in Holy Angels Cemetery in Roselle.

Visitation will begin at 5 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a Christian Wake Service at 7 p.m. Additional visitation without the family present will be held from 9-10 a.m. on Friday at the church.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for the Rupiper family at www.sharpfuneral.com.
Wayne was born on June 17, 1931, on his parent’s farm west of Roselle, Iowa. The son of Louis and Carrie (Hugeback) Rupiper, he grew up in Roselle and attended Holy Angels School. On June 18, 1953, he was united in marriage to Alice Ocken at Sacred Heart Church in Templeton, IA. Wayne and Alice enjoyed 68 years of marriage together and were blessed with 12 children.
Wayne helped on the family farm as a child, which eventually led him to being self-employed in the sheep shearing and wool buying business. Also, as livestock buyer, he looked forward to seeing his many friends as he traveled to livestock auctions across the state.
Wayne was an active member of the Holy Angels Parish in Roselle for many years. He served on the Roselle Mutual Insurance board for over 40 years. Throughout his life, he enjoyed playing fast pitch softball, umpiring, bowling, ballroom dancing and traveling with Alice and their friends. He enjoyed making new friends along the way as he guessed their age with his special business card! Wayne loved following sports, especially cheering on his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He was an avid fan of the Kuemper Knights. Anyone who knew Wayne knew that he was so proud of his family.
Left to cherish his memories are children: Sherry (Steve) Wittrock of Omaha, NE, Barb (Denny) Schultes of Dedham, IA, Randy (Kathy) Rupiper of Ankeny, IA, Keith (Roxane) Rupiper of Roselle, IA, Michelle (Brian) Tigges of Johnston, IA, Dave (Carol) Rupiper of Johnston, IA, Doug (Pam) Rupiper of Carroll, IA, Kent (Tami) Rupiper of Ankeny, IA, Mark (Kim) Rupiper of Phoenix, AZ, Rhonda (Rich) Gottschalk of Omaha, NE and Scott (Mickie) Rupiper of West Des Moines, IA; 29 grandchildren; 33 great-grandchildren with one due in December; 4 step great-grandchildren; his brother LeRoy and sister-in-law Pat Rupiper; in-law’s Janice (Harlan) Wolterman of Bellevue, NE; Robert (Lynn) Ocken of Cedar Rapids, IA; Keith (Diane) Irlbeck of Northfield, MN; Nancy Ocken of DeWitt, IA; as well as many nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his wife Alice; parents Louis and Carrie Rupiper; daughter in infancy Mary Frances; father-in-law and mother-in-law Lawrence and Mary Ocken; in-law’s Joleen Irlbeck, Leonette Irlbeck, Ron Ocken, Merle Ocken, Larry Ocken, Lavonne Ocken, Leo Schoeppner and Vernon Irlbeck; great-grandsons Carter and Franklin Schultes.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the family which will be forwarded to charitable organizations.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Hand to God Kathy...he was a wonderful man!

Susan Teter-Lord – October 10 2021 at 11:20 PM

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Basket Full of Wishes was purchased for the family of Wayne Rupiper.

Comment #35477977 – October 14 2021 at 6:32 PM

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Sorry for your Loss - The Maher Family purchased the Beautiful in Blue for the family of Wayne Rupiper.

Sorry for your Loss – The Maher Family – October 14 2021 at 1:32 PM

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Beautiful in Blue was purchased for the family of Wayne Rupiper.

Comment #35474814 – October 14 2021 at 11:14 AM

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Thinking of you all. You have our deepest sympathy. Kevin, Diane and family

Diane Rupiper – October 14 2021 at 10:29 AM

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