Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Steve Schaefer, 59 of Carroll, died early Tuesday morning, January 6, 2015 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Saturday, January 10, 2015 at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott. Music will be by Kate Cuddy and the St. Lawrence Choir. Lectors for the funeral mass will be: Julie Podey, Kelley Johnson, and Liz Hartsock. Gift Bearers will be Steve’s grandchildren: Kenedy, Shelby, Destiny, Evan, Macy, and Ryder Schaefer. Eucharistic Ministers will be: Jane Schaefer and Allen and Diane Vonnahme. Casket Bearers will be: Gary Schaefer, Ken Schaefer, Corey Schaefer, David Schaefer, Gary Riesselman, Allen Vonnahme, and Jason Vonnahme. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 3:30 p.m. on Friday where there will be a rosary at 4 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service at 6 p.m.

The casket will be moved to St. Lawrence Church at 9 a.m. on Saturday where visitation will resume until time of the funeral mass.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Steve’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born on May 17, 1955 at Carroll, Iowa, Steven Dale Schaefer was the son of John “Jack” and Florence (Galloway) Schaefer. He spent his younger years in the Breda area, attended St. Bernard’s School and Audubon Schools for a brief time before graduating from Carroll High School with the Class of 1974. Following his schooling, Steve was employed in the meat department at Fareway Foods.

On May 6, 1978 he was united in marriage to Marilyn Ocken at Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Carroll. The couple made their home in Carroll and Steve was employed at Pack and Save for many years before going to work for Farner Bocken Co., where he was currently employed.
In his spare time, Steve enjoyed walking, relaxing, listening to 70’s music, taking drives, especially around Swan Lake. He always enjoyed the time spent with his family, especially his grandchildren.

Steve is survived by his wife Marilyn of Carroll; sons: Brian Schaefer and his wife Holly and their children, Kenedy, Shelby, and Destiny, all of Carroll, and Adam Schaefer and his wife Carri and their children, Evan, Macy, and Ryder, all of Carroll; his siblings: David Schaefer of Carroll, Gary (Jane) Schaefer of Carroll, Kenneth Schaefer and friend Becki Miller of Carroll, Linda Schaefer of Carroll, Janice Schaefer of Carroll, Lori (Dave) Hill of North Liberty, and Amy (Mitch) Rydl of Carroll; his mother-in-law, Rose Ocken of Carroll; his sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law: Diane (Allen) Vonnahme of Arcadia, and Jolene (Gary) Riesselman of Halbur; as well as many nieces, nephews, other extended relatives and many friends.

His parents and his father-in-law, Wilfred Ocken preceded him in death.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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John Schaefer always enjoyed the many talks with Steve at the Galloway reunions.

John Irwin Schaefer – January 07 2015 at 3:44 PM

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Marilyn, Schaefer and Ocken family.. So sorry to hear of Steve's passing. We will keep you all in our prayers.

Bruce & Mae Vonnahme – January 08 2015 at 9:45 AM

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sorry to hear about steve..thoughts and prayers.. mark and deb Boell

deb boell – January 08 2015 at 10:00 AM

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I'm so sorry to hear about Steve's passing. I enjoyed working with him at Farner Bocken. He was my friend and will be missed. Sally Magner

Sally Magner – January 06 2015 at 1:45 PM

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Lit a candle in memory of Steve Schaefer

Joleen Kasparbauer – January 07 2015 at 1:25 PM

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