Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Stephen Windschitl, age 65, of Arcadia, passed away on Monday, January 29, 2024 at his home in Arcadia.

A funeral mass will be held at 10 a.m. Saturday, February 17, 2024 at Holy Spirit Catholic Church – St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm. Concelebrant will be Fr. Andy Windschitl. Music will be by All Strings Attached. Lector will be Chaplin Angelo Luis. Gift Bearers will be Bennett Sims, Roxie Reinart, Vicki O’Tool, Lennelle Cecil, and Deb Fiscus. Burial will be at a later date.

There will be no visitation prior to the funeral mass.

The family requests that you kindly omit any flower tributes, instead please make memorial contributions to the Animal Rescue League of Carroll, or the Family Resource Center in Carroll.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Stephen’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Stephen (Steve) Windschitl, died peacefully in his home in Arcadia, Iowa on January 29, 2024 surrounded by his wife and chief health advocate of 45 years, Rebecca Windschitl, and his devoted caregivers.

Stephen was born in Superior, Wisconsin on May 29, 1958 to Cletus and Valerie Windschitl, the third in a large Catholic family of seven siblings including his four brother and two sisters. Just before he graduated from Kuemper High School in Carroll, IA on April 6, 1976, Steve was involved in an accident that altered the course of his life and profoundly touched the lives of his immediate and extended family, his friends, his wife and her extended family, as well as the caregivers who tended to Steve throughout his adult life.

Steve loved competitive sports. In his younger years enjoyed coaching T-ball to the younger children. In high school he found a passion for wrestling. Over time he was an avid Vikings fan, rooting for his team from his armchair. He supported his wife’s career teaching music in Carroll and the surrounding communities by attending perennial concerts while he was able, and being a happy presence for students waiting for lessons in the All Strings Attached music studio when he was there. He loved reading Louis L’Amour books in his younger adult life, and had a keep appreciation for and encyclopedic memory of the Star Wars and Star Trek series throughout his life. He loved words, and was a whiz with word search puzzles, often creating his own and sending them to family. Most of all, he loved spending time and playing checkers with his dad, Clete, often for hours during strategic matches.

It is said that the measure of a man is not so much by his accomplishments but how the events of a life reveal who he is. Steve made clear to everyone in his orbit that the purpose of his life was other people. He was endowed at the age of 18 with the gifts of the spirit which he shared with others every day of his life: the deep wisdom of love, the kindness of understanding, the fortitude of patience beyond endurance, the generosity of forgiveness and of smiles and laughter, and a knowledge communicated by his very being that the Holy Spirit was with him daily.

Steve was preceded in death by his beloved father, Clete, and his older brother John and nephew Jeremiah Windschitl. He is survived by his wife Rebecca Windschitl of Arcadia, mother Valerie Windschitl of Ames, Ia; siblings Dr. Mark (Dr. Pam Joseph) Windschitl of Seattle; Dawn Windschitl (John) of Des Moines, Ia; Martha (Mark) Royer of Ames, IA; Chris (Jody) Windschitl of Lake City, IA; Gretchen (Roy) Janssen of Ames, IA; and Dr. Paul (Tricia) Windschitl of Iowa City, IA, and 30 nieces and nephews.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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So loved getting to know Steve, we shared a lot through the years that I knew him and his wife Becky. We spent many hours together, putting puzzles together, playing cards, checkers and most of all watching movies. I was blessed with a lot of DVD's and Steve would pick out the ones he wanted to watch from my list. So proud to have gotten to know him. God Bless you Steve, you will be truly missed.

Vicki O’Tool – January 30 2024 at 3:49 PM

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So sorry Becky! May he rest in peace.

Bev Vonnahme – January 30 2024 at 4:50 PM

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I've only met Steve several times but one thing I noticed was how genuinely happy he would be doing simple things such as watching movies/sports and interacting with the many pets that surrounded him at home. He had a wonderful smile and he surely will be missed. R Bak

Richard Bak – January 30 2024 at 6:04 PM

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So sorry Becky for your loss. Praying for you at this difficult time. 🙏🙏

Penny Wilkins – January 31 2024 at 6:03 PM

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I was fortunate enough to know Steve for 3 years spent many many days with him. He had a great attitude he never took life too hard , loved his pup Sully.. I'll miss you Steve. May the force be with you.

Betty Hartzell – January 31 2024 at 6:04 PM

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