Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Shirley Brickman, 95, of Dedham, passed away on Monday, August 4, 2025, at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll. Funeral service will be held at 2 p.m. on Monday, August 18, 2025, at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with visitation starting after 12:30 p.m. Burial will be in the Mount Calvary Cemetery in Cherokee.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Shirley’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Shirley Ann (Schmillen) Brickman was born on August 26, 1929, on a farm near Cleghorn, Iowa, the youngest of eight children born to Thomas and Alice (Ryan) Schmillen. Raised during the Great Depression, Shirley’s early life was marked by hardship, resilience, and a strong family bond. She grew up helping on the family farm and took on many responsibilities from a young age.

Shirley attended Immaculate Conception School in Cherokee and graduated high school in 1947. She married the love of her life, Fred Brickman, on November 8, 1948. Together they raised five sons and one daughter: Mike, Mark, Tony, Greg, Tim, and Jean. A dedicated mother, Shirley raised her children with compassion and firmness, managing the household during long periods when Fred traveled for work.

The family lived in Cherokee, Iowa, before relocating to Carroll in 1964. Shirley served as the head children’s librarian at the Carroll Public Library until September 1974, when she and her husband relocated to Lakewood, Colorado to fulfill their dream of living near the mountains. Shirley enjoyed her new career in Denver as the executive secretary to the head geophysicist for the western division of Exxon Petroleum. She retired in 1990 and enjoyed traveling with Fred until his passing in 1999.

Despite her love of the mountains, her heart always remained in Iowa, where she returned in 2021 to be closer to some of her children. Shirley will be remembered as a loving wife and a dedicated mother with unwavering faith. Her children and their families kept Shirley busy praying the rosary and reading her entire prayer book daily, mostly for their benefit.

Survivors include her children: Mike Brickman of Dedham; Tony (Vanessa) Brickman of Maumelle, AR; Tim (Sandy Armstrong) Brickman of Roseville, MN; and Jean (Mike) Seidl of Dedham; 11 grandchildren; 18 great-grandchildren with another one on the way; 11 great-great-grandchildren; special cousins Connie Anderson and Fr. Jay Harrington; and many nieces, nephews and friends.

She was preceded in death by her husband Fred; two sons Mark and Greg Brickman; a daughter-in-law Lanie Brickman; her parents and parents-in-law; her siblings and their spouses: Francis “Bud” Schmillen; Marie and Emil Anderson; Bernice and Art Blaker; Arlyce and Eddie Wiemold; Bill and Bibs Schmillen; Bob and Mildred Schmillen; and John and Ada Schmillen; and other in-laws: Verna and Burdette Sindt; Lloyd and Martha Brickman; and Bob and Clementine Brickman.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Shirley was a part of the Seidl family. She will be missed. RIP..Chris and Brenda Seidl

Chris Seidl – August 07 2025 at 8:16 AM

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I am so sad to Know Shirley has passed. We’d been friends since first grade. Sending love and caring for the family. Marcella Blankenbaker.

Marcella Blankenbaker – August 08 2025 at 7:25 PM

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My sister and I both worked with Shirley at CPL when we were in high school. We so enjoyed her! Such a lovely, kind lady! Pat Kerwin Strother

Pat Kerwin Strother – August 17 2025 at 3:36 PM

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Large Basket Garden was purchased for the family of Shirley Brickman.

Comment #52650638 – August 13 2025 at 12:07 PM

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Edward Jones Sean Haluska, Nikki & Gabby purchased the Simply Elegant Spathiphyllum for the family of Shirley Brickman.

Edward Jones Sean Haluska, Nikki & Gabby – August 13 2025 at 1:27 PM

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