Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Sheryl Stoolman, age 53, of Carroll, Iowa, died Thursday, May 13, 2010, of injuries received in an auto accident near Beaver, Iowa.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 A.M., Tuesday, May 18, 2010, at Holy Spirit Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Father Timothy Johnson. Con-celebrants will be Father James Bruch and Father Lynn Bruch. Lector will be Dr. Sharon Stoolman-Olden. Gift Bearers will be Jeff and Maxine Warnke, Brad and Holly Warnke, and Adam Warnke. Mass Servers will be Katelynn Venner, Cory Venner, Stacie Venner, and Paige Schlichte. Music will be by All Strings Attached and soloist will be Justin Badding. Eucharistic Ministers will be Julie Rohe and Cheri Theulen. The Carroll County EMS and Fire Departments, St. Anthony Hospital Emergency Room Nurses, and Catholic Daughters of America will form an honor guard at the church for the funeral mass. Casket Bearers will be Carroll County EMS personnel, Denise Rohrbeck, Rae Ann Meyer, Don Meyer, Jeff Hall, Darrell Baker, Jim Millenacker, Mike Lloyd, and Dan Becker. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.
Friends may call at Holy Spirit Church in Carroll after 3:30 P.M. Monday. A rosary will be prayed at 4 P.M. Monday by the Carroll Catholic Daughters of America. There will be a Christian wake service at 7 P.M. Monday by Holy Spirit Parish. Visitation will resume at 8:30 A.M. Tuesday at Holy Spirit Church. Memorials may be left at the church to establish a scholarship in Sheryl’s name for Nursing Students or EMS Training.
Sheryl was born on May 20, 1956, at Carroll, Iowa, the daughter of Cyril and Anita (Bruch) Venner. She attended Christ the King School and graduated from Kuemper High School in 1974. She then graduated from the St. Anthony School of Nursing in 1976 as a Licensed Practical Nurse. Sheryl and Dan Stoolman were married on August 14, 1976, at St. Francis Church in Maple River, Iowa. The family lived in several communities before settling in Carroll in 1984. Sheryl received her Registered Nursing Degree in 1986 from the Des Moines Area Community College. She was employed at St. Anthony Regional Hospital for twenty-six years and was the Director of the Emergency Room Unit for nineteen years. In 2007 Sheryl received the Iowa Hospital Associations Heroes Award. She was a part time nursing instructor at DMACC and a part time paramedic for the Carroll County Ambulance Service. Sheryl was a member of Holy Spirit Parish, Parish Ladies Guild, Catholic Daughters of America, Emergency Nurses Association of Iowa, and the Iowa Trauma Association.
Survivors include her husband, Dan Stoolman of Carroll; her children, Rachel Stoolman and fiancé Alex Butrymowicz of The Bronx, New York, Chuck Stoolman of Carroll, and Andy Stoolman and wife Sara of Shakopee, Minn.; her grandchildren, Jackson and Addison Stoolman; parents, Cyril and Anita Venner of Arcadia; her sisters, Donna Friel and husband Jim of West Branch, Marlene Wittrock and husband Gary of Arcadia, Joleen Eischeid and husband Steve of Breda, Angie Tigges and husband Wayne of Maple River, and Marcia Schlichte and husband Dan of Ralston; brothers, Ken Venner and wife Carol of Arcadia, Dennis Venner and wife Kathy of Arcadia, and Kevin Venner and wife Jill of Arcadia; her mother-in-law, Agnes Stoolman of Carroll; sisters and brothers-in-law, Donna and Pat Rock of Omaha, Nebr., Norene Stoolman of Omaha, Nebr., and David and Susie Stoolman of Omaha, Nebr.; and by many nieces and nephews.
She was preceded in death by a granddaughter, Casey Iman; her father-in-law, Don Stoolman; and grandparents, John and Margaret Venner and Art and Regina Bruch, Sr.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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So sorry to hear of Sheryl's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. We love you!

Greg, Karyn, Karsyn and Shey Meeks – May 17 2010 at 8:59 AM

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Chuck, We are deeply sadden to hear about your MOM. I know, she will be a beautiul angel watching out to help someone in heaven. Good memories will get you thru the tough times. Love to all. Nanc

Keith & Nancy Madsen – May 14 2010 at 10:47 AM

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Dan,Chuck,Andy and Rachel, Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your families at this very difficult time. We hope that the happy memories you shared with each other and your wife and mom will carry through the tough time. Know there are many people thinking of you.

Brian and Tammy Fagan and Family – May 14 2010 at 2:42 PM

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Dan, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Randy and Janelle

Randy and Janelle Schulte – May 14 2010 at 3:00 PM

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We send our condolences from DMACC. Sheryl was a joy to work with she will be deeply missed!

Christy Schettler – May 14 2010 at 3:45 PM

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