Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Ruth Marie (Stork) Lappe, age 70, of Auburn, passed away peacefully in the early evening of July 31st, 2020 at the University of Nebraska Medical Center in Omaha, Nebraska. She was surrounded by her husband, sons, and grandchildren.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Friday, August 7, 2020 at Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Lynn Bruch. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and Duane Handlos. Lector will be Amy Stork. Eucharistic Minister will be Bill Stork. Casket Bearers will be Colby Lappe, Jacob Lappe, Tyler Lappe, Jack Lappe, Curtis Stork, Nick Stork, Justin Stork, and Ryan Stork. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll. Those in attendance will be required to wear a face covering and abide by Covid-19 Social Distancing Restrictions. There will be no public visitation before the mass on Friday morning.
Visitation will be held from 4-7 p.m. Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. Those in attendance will be asked to abide by Covid-19 practices, and face coverings are recommended.
Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Ruth’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.
She was born May 16, 1950 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital to Mathias and Mary Ann (Grabner) Stork.
Ruth graduated from Kuemper Catholic High School. Ruth Stork was married to Fred L Lappe on January 3, 1970 at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. They had four children.
Ruth enjoyed cooking, baking, canning, gardening, and trips to the casino with a very good girlfriend. Above all Ruth enjoyed the time she spent with her family.
Ruth is preceded in death by her parents; Mathias and Mary Ann Stork, her eldest son; Christopher Lee Lappe, her brother Kenneth Stork.
She is survived by her husband Fred of Auburn, 3 sons, Jeff (Tina) Lappe of Milford, Brian Lappe of Coal City, Illinois, and Cory (Mary) Lappe of Lapeer, Michigan. 13 grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren. Her sisters: Phyllis Davis (Larry), twin sister Susan Benedict (Robert), Patricia Stork, Margaret Gross (Patrick), Mary Eickman (Lynn) Michele Stork, Sandra Hackerson (Ron); her brothers: Alan Stork (LuJean), Robert Stork (MaryLou), Donald Stork (Marsha), Thomas Stork (Mary Jean), Bill Stork (Pat), Gordon Stork (Carol), Matt Stork Jr. (Teri), Henry Stork (Amy); sister-in-law: Michelle Stork; as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Beautiful in Blue was purchased for the family of Ruth Lappe.

Comment #31501388 – August 03 2020 at 2:30 PM

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Guiding Light Bouquet was purchased for the family of Ruth Lappe.

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Serene Retreat was purchased for the family of Ruth Lappe.

Comment #31519590 – August 05 2020 at 8:18 PM

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My sympathy to all of Ruth's family. She was always a kind, cheerful person. We sang together in high school - a fellow alto! May she Rest in Peace. Diane (Schelle) Rosenthal

Diane Rosenthal – August 10 2020 at 1:51 PM

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So sorry to hear of Ruth's passing. She was such a wonderful person! I loved working with Ruth at Zeke's - she always had a positive perspective on life and never spoke an ill word about anyone. Loved this lady! Praying for her family! Carol and Mike Thobe

Carol and Mike Thobe – August 06 2020 at 9:10 PM

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