Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Ray Pollastrini, 88 of Carroll, died Monday, August 18, 2014 at his residence in Carroll surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be at 10:30 a.m. Thursday, August 21, 2014 at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott. Music will be by Kate Cuddy and the St. Lawrence Choir with Jake Gute as Cantor. Lectors for the funeral mass will be Matt Pollastrini and Luke Hukee. Gift Bearers will be: Liz Yetmar, Anna Nelson, Jenna Hukee, and Laura Pollastrini. Eucharistic Ministers will be Kathy Stein and John and Diane Staples. Honorary Casket Bearers will be: Bill Beidler, Ron Kerwood, Tony Stalzer, Paul Schulte, Bob Sapp, Leo Steffen, and John Zimmerman. Casket Bearers will be: Sam Yetmar, Peter Nelson, Jake Hukee, Luke Hukee, Tony Pollastrini, David Yetmar, and Dave Nelson. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll with military honors conducted by the Carroll American Legion.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 5 p.m. on Wednesday where there will be a Christian Wake Service at 7 p.m.

The casket will be moved to St. Lawrence Church at 9:30 a.m. Thursday where visitation will resume until time of the funeral mass. Memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for Kuemper Catholic Schools Foundation or St. Lawrence Catholic Church Endowment Fund.
Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Ray’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Raymond Robert Pollastrini was born on November 15, 1925 in Clinton, Iowa the son of Ottavio and Giulia (Salani) Pollastrini. The family lived in Collodi, Italy until 1937 when they immigrated to the United States and settled in Carroll, Iowa.

Ray’s father purchased the Carroll Candy Kitchen in 1938 from the Marcucci family and introduced the caramel apple to western Iowa.

At the age of 18, Ray was drafted into the United States Armed Forces. He served in the European Theatre during World War II from 1944-1946. Ray earned the combat infantry badge during the allies march to Berlin. Later, Ray served in the Army of Occupation.

On October 18, 1954 Ray married the love of his life, Betty Ann Gute at Sts. Peter and Paul Catholic Church in Carroll. Although the candy business had evolved into a downtown café, named Pokey’s, the copper kettle continued to be fired every fall to usher in the caramel apple season. Ray spent countless hours stirring secret ingredients into a caramel that is legendary in the town of Carroll. In 1997, when the family business came to an end, the caramel recipe was passed on to Ray’s daughter and son-in-law, Gina and Dave Nelson.

Ray was very proud of Kuemper Catholic Schools, serving on numerous committees, including treasurer of the school board for several years. He enjoyed relaxing with his coffee group, playing cards, golfing, hunting, and “sipping” Paisano (Italian red wine). He was a lifelong member of St. Lawrence Parish and the Carroll American Legion.

Survivors include his wife of 60 years, Betty Pollastrini of Carroll; his children: Julie (Bruce) Hukee of Urbandale, Mark (Cindy) Pollastrini of Newton, Maria (fiancé Jim Huston) Pollastrini of Des Moines, Gina (Dave) Nelson of Carroll, Paula (David) Yetmar of Carroll, and Dr. Matt Pollastrini of Waverly; 11 grandchildren; 8 great-grandchildren; his sisters-in-law, Betty Gute of Carroll, and Mickey Gute of Carroll; as well as many nieces, nephews, other extended relatives and many friends.

Ray was preceded in death by his parents; his brother Ido Pollastrini; and his parents-in-law, Leo and Ann Gute.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Julie, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers! Treasure the wonderful memories!!

Diane and Gary Ross – August 18 2014 at 9:16 PM

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Loving you all so much right now and wishing I was there. Coney

Leann coenen – August 19 2014 at 9:08 AM

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I'm sorry for your loss. At such times words that truly comfort your loss are hard to think of. The Bible has these comforting words found at Philippians 4:6&7...... "Do not be anxious over anything,but in everything by Prayer and Supplication along with Thanksgiving let your Petitons be made known to God and the Peace of God that Excel all thought will guard your Hearts and Mental Power by means of Christ Jesus. May the family keep in mind that God promise to help through these difficult times if you turn to him in Prayer.

Teri Morgan – August 19 2014 at 10:18 AM

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Betty and family, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Ray!! What a great guy!! He touched many lives and will be greatly missed. All my love to you all. You are a great family and will keep his memory alive in all your hearts. Shannon Reising

Shannon Reising – August 19 2014 at 2:38 PM

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Thinking of you and your family. Sorry to hear of your loss.

Lisa Barnett – August 20 2014 at 9:18 AM

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