Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Raymond Beckman, age 93, of Carroll, died peacefully on Sunday, March 8, 2020 at Regency Park Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Friday, March 13, 2020 at St. John Paul II Parish- St. Lawrence Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Lawrence Choir with Sherry Loughran as cantor. Lectors for the mass will be Evan Beckman and Megan Downey. Gift Bearers will be Verna and Mike Tunning, Ruth and Alan Kokenge, and Louis Starman. Eucharistic Ministers will be Joleen Mooney, Peg Scheidt, and Teresa Beckman. Casket Bearers will be Raymond’s grandchildren, Evan Beckman, Lauren Harding, Megan Downey, Ashley Quinn, Kara Barton, Ray Beckman, Lexi Beckman, and Jack Beckman. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll with Military Honors conducted by the Carroll American Legion.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 4 p.m. on Thursday where there will be a Carroll Knights of Columbus Rosary prayed at 5 p.m., and a Christian Wake Service will be held at 6:30 p.m.

The casket will be moved to St. Lawrence Church on Friday morning where visitation will resume from 9-9:45a.m.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Raymond’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Raymond, the son of Henry and Anna (Schwabe) Beckman was born on March 17, 1926 in Westside, Iowa. He graduated from Arcadia High School in 1944. On October 21, 1944, Raymond was inducted into the United States Army, proudly serving his country during World War II. He was honorably discharged on Christmas Day, 1946 and returned home to Arcadia.

On June 28, 1954 Raymond was united in marriage to Irene Buelt at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. The couple made their home in Carroll where Raymond was employed as the Parts Manager for the Chevrolet Dealerships in Carroll.

Over the years, Raymond enjoyed gardening, caring for his pristine yard, helping his neighbors with any household tasks, supporting the St. Louis Cardinals, playing cards, socializing at the morning coffee group, traveling across the United States, visiting his children and grandchildren, and caring for his wife, Irene, in their later years. He was a member of St. John Paul II Parish-St. Lawrence Church, Knights of Columbus, and the Carroll American Legion, where he served as the unit’s historian.

Left to celebrate Raymond’s life is his wife of 66 years, Irene Beckman, of Carroll; his three children and their families: Mark Beckman and his wife, Gail, of Charlottesville, VA; their son, Evan (Shelly) Beckman, and their daughters , Morgan and Lydia, of Winston-Salem, NC, and their daughter, Lauren (Evan) Harding, and their son, Hayes, of Richmond, VA; Lori Elder and her husband, George, of Charlottesville, VA; their daughter, Megan (Chris) Downey, and their children, Aiden and Charlotte, of Ruckersville, VA; their daughter, Ashley (Dan) Quinn, and their daughter, Kinley, of Warrington, PA, and their daughter, Kara (Jeff) Barton, of Richmond, VA; Scott Beckman and his wife, Teresa, of Grayslake, IL; and their children, Ray Beckman of Chicago, IL, Lexi Beckman of Grayslake, IL, and Jack Beckman of Grayslake, IL. Also surviving are his siblings: Verna (Leonard “Mike”) Tunning of Dedham, Virginia Buelt of Waltham, MN, and Phyllis Wernimont of Virginia Beach, VA, and a brother-in-law, Louis Starman, of Carroll; as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives.

Raymond was preceded in death by his parents; sisters: Lucille (Herb) Buelt, Eunice Starman; brothers-in-law: Leonard Buelt, and Donald Wernimont.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Uncle Ray, I will miss all the talks we had over the years. You were a very kind and great gentlemen. God bless you! Rest in peace! Your nephew Ken

Kenneth Buelt – March 16 2020 at 11:26 AM

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Thank you for letting me pray with your family last night. It meant a lot to me, and I'm so lucky to have shared that moment with your family. I send all my thought and prayers to your family at this time.

Kysa Auen – March 09 2020 at 10:25 AM

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Thank you for that beautiful moment. Me, my mom, my uncle, and Im sure my grandpa were all touched and comforted by that.

Lexi Beckman – March 10 2020 at 3:08 PM

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UVA Clinical Trials Office purchased the Beautiful in Blue for the family of Raymond Beckman.

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