Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Norman Thelen, age 89, of Carroll, Iowa passed away on Sunday, February 11, 2018 at St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Friday, February 16, 2018 at Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Carroll. The celebrant will be Fr. Kevin Richter. Music will be by Barb McDermott and the Holy Spirit Choir. Mass Servers will be Norman’s grandsons: Nick Gerdes, and Alex Gerdes. Lectors will be Norman’s grandson, Christopher Thelen, and Norman’s Goddaughter Susan Boes. Gift Bearers will be Norman’s granddaughters: Melissa Meyer, Karisa Thelen, Kaitlyn Thelen, and Miranda Gerdes. Eucharistic Minister will be Norman’s daughter Julie Gerdes. Casket Bearers will be Norman’s grandsons: Christopher Thelen, Andrew Thelen, Daniel Thelen, Brandon Steinkuehler, Tanner Thelen, Trey Jackson, Alex Gerdes, Nick Gerdes, Nathan Thelen, and Zachary Thelen. Burial will be at 1:30 p.m. at St. Ann’s Cemetery in Vail.

Friends may call at Holy Spirit Church in Carroll after 4 p.m. on Thursday, where there will be a Rosary prayed at 5 p.m., and a Christian Wake Service will be held at 6:30 p.m.

Visitation will resume at Holy Spirit Church on Friday morning at 9:30 a.m., and it will continue until the time of the funeral mass.

In lieu of flowers memorials may be directed to the Holy Spirit Sisters.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Norman’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Norman was born on January 16, 1929 to Sylvester and Mathilda (Neuerburg) Thelen. He was born and raised on the family farm northeast of Mt. Carmel, Iowa where he attended school. After his father’s death Norman and some of the older siblings worked together to help their mother take care of the family farm and raise the younger children.

Norman was united in marriage to Marleen Schloesser on August 6, 1956 at St. Ann Church in Vail. After their marriage they resided in Carroll where they lived until 1965. During this time Norman worked various jobs.

In March of 1965, Norman bought a farm south of Westside where he raised corn, beans, oats, hay, cattle, and hogs. He was most proud of his farrow-to finish hog operation and later years selling feeder pigs. He stopped raising hogs in 1993 but continued to farm the land through the 2004 growing season. Norman often credited Marleen’s income earned as an RN at St. Anthony Regional Hospital (where she was employed from 1956 to 1972) as the means that allowed him to get back to farming. Her nursing career helped to sustain their family during those first years on their own farm. After almost 40 years on the farm, they sold the farm and retired to Carroll in August 2004. They enjoyed celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary in 2006 with family and friends before Marleen passed in May of 2008.

Norman and Marleen enjoyed traveling to see family and friends, visiting and playing cards-especially Euchre. Their most memorable trip was in 1984 when they toured France and Portugal. Yearly family vacations were fond memories. Norman has often impressed others by his great memory and math skills. Norman was always appreciative of the compassionate and loving care received at St Anthony Nursing Home. He enjoyed visiting and joking with the staff, residents, and family. He often went to daily mass and enjoyed bingo and trivia.

Norman was preceded in death by his parents; wife Marleen; three siblings who died in infancy: Dorothy, Victor and Melvin Thelen; sisters Linda Hoffmann and Marcile Hoffman; brothers Gerald Thelen, Eugene Thelen and Norbert Thelen; sisters-in-law Mayvis Thelen, Donna Thelen and Diane Schloesser; and brothers-in-law Alfred Hoffman, John Hoffmann, Allan Ludwig, and Marvin Huelsing.

Survivors include his and Marleen’s five children, son Joseph (Cherith) Thelen of Denison, son James (Alanna) Thelen of Denison, son Jeffrey Thelen of Carroll, son Thomas (Pamela) Thelen of Chesterfield, MO and daughter Julie (David) Gerdes of Lake View; 14grand-children and 8 great- grandchildren; siblings Sylvester (Kay) Thelen of Templeton, Ralph Thelen of Leesburg, FL, Lawrence (Cecelia) Thelen of Vail, Mary Ludwig of Carroll and Lynette (Mike) Schaffer of Omaha, NE; brothers-in law and sisters-in-law Florence Thelen of Atlantic, Kay Thelen of Marshalltown, Jean Thelen of Anita, Madelyn Huelsing of Maple River, Martin (Kay) Schloesser of Calhan, CO, Melvin Schloesser of Casa Grande, AZ, Mary (Tim) Gilligan of Gretna, NE, Michael Schloesser of Calhan, CO and Dorothy (Leroy) Childress of Denison as well as many nieces, nephews and other extended relatives.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Norman is truly going to be missed. He had a beautiful smile. I met Norman at St. Anthony's Nursing home. Always gentle and kind. I am so sorry for the loss of your father.

Wanda O’Neill, daughter of Lil Eischeid – February 12 2018 at 4:18 PM

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I am thankful that I got to know and enjoy Norman at the nursing home while I was visiting my husband. We share many conversations about farming and gardening which I really enjoyed. He was a very special person and I shall miss him and continue to pray for all of you. Jo Molitor

Jo Molitor – February 13 2018 at 4:54 PM

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Our sympathy to the entire Thelen Family, and especially Joe, Cherith, and their family. Doug and Judy Gronau

Doug Gronau – February 15 2018 at 11:17 AM

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To all of the Thelen Family. May God wrap his arms around you and hold you all in the palm of his hands. Like Tom said " I heaven together forever." God Bless Russ and Mary Wulf

Mary Wulf – February 15 2018 at 6:07 PM

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Thoughts and prayers to Uncle Normans family. He will always be in our hearts and memories. Monty and Nancy Padget and family

Nancy – February 12 2018 at 4:42 PM

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