Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Neil Polking, 83 of Breda, died Wednesday evening, April 30, 2014 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be at 10:30 a.m. Monday, May 5, 2014 at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. The Celebrant will be Fr. Gary Snyder. Music will be by Marilyn Hundling and the St. Bernard’s Choir. Soloists for the funeral mass will be: Rhonda Derby, Jill Fitzgerald, Sara Canady and Abby Heim. Lector for the funeral mass will be Marlene Goecke. Gift Bearers will be Marilyn Eischeid and Diane Rosteck. Eucharistic Minister will be Bev Bruning. Casket Bearers will be: Kevin Eischeid, Doug Eischeid, Jim Eischeid, Ken Eischeid, Frank Eischeid, and Dean Bruning. Burial will be in the parish cemetery with military honors conducted by the Breda American Legion. The Breda Catholic Order of Foresters will form an honor guard for the funeral mass.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Breda after 2:30 p.m. on Sunday where there will be a rosary at 3 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service at 5 p.m.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Breda and online condolences may be left for Neil’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Neil F. Polking was born on October 30, 1930 at Carroll, Iowa the son of Art and Alvina (Wessling) Polking. He spent his entire lifetime in the Breda Community and was a graduate of St. Bernard’s High School. Following his formal education Neil served in the United States Army during the Korean Conflict and after his honorable discharge returned to Breda.

On August 22, 1953 he was united in marriage to Marlys Goecke at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. Neil was employed at Breda Oil and later went to work for Carroll County where he worked in the roads and maintenance department and drove a maintainer in the Breda area.

Neil was an avid baseball fan playing for a farm league team in his younger years, coaching Little League and also announcing for baseball games. He enjoyed horseshoes, bowling, gardening and loved fishing. He was a 60 year member of the Breda American Legion, member of St. Bernard’s Parish and St. Bernard’s Parish Choir.

Survivors include his children: Russ Polking and wife Ann of Newton, Carol Heim and husband Joe of Cedar Rapids, and Rhonda Derby and husband John of Ralston, NE; 8 grandchildren; 6 great-grandchildren; his sisters: Marilyn Eischeid of Halbur and Diane (John) Rosteck of Cedar Rapids; his in-laws: Delores Kanne of Carroll, Madonna Koster of Breda, Marinell (Warren) Garnatz of LaVista, NE, and Marlene Goecke of Remsen; as well as many nieces, nephews, other extended relatives and many friends.

Neil was preceded in death by his parents and his wife Marlys in April of 2009.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Breda, Iowa

102 S 5th St, Breda, IA, 51436

712-673-2828

[email protected]

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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I remember your dad with a smile, Rhonda. When we moved you to a new apartment and he had me park so close to a retaining wall that I couldn't open my driver's door, picking fresh beans in your folk's garden to pitch like dog biscuits to my waiting Labradors. It was so obvious how much he loved his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. I wish hope and healing for your entire family.

Annie Kelley – May 01 2014 at 3:58 PM

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UNCLE NEIL... I WILL MISS YOU... YOU ALWAYS SEEMED LIKE SUCH A LARGE MAN WITH AN EQUALLY LARGE HEART.... I HOPE YOU ARE GETTING YOUR GARDEN PLANTED AND BASKING IN THE SUNSHINE... GIVE MARLYS A HUG AND KISS FROM ME.... HUGS AND PRAYERS TO RUSS, CAROL, AND RHONDA AND THE REST OF YOUR DEAR FAMILY... LOVE YOU KATHY

KATHY TRACY – May 02 2014 at 10:04 AM

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May the God of Tender Mercy be a source of Comfort for the family during your time of Bereavement. God whose name is Jehovah and his son Jesus Christ, are concern over your loss. Their promise is that our love one can live again. (Read John 5:28&29) Not only will he get rid of Death but also sickness. (Read revelation 21:3&4 & Isaiah 33:24). He's getting rid of Sickness and Death because it was never God purpose for us to Die. During this difficult time , God word can be a Great Comfort the family

Teri Morgan – June 25 2014 at 7:05 PM

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To Neil's family, Thank you for the honor to care for your Dad while he was a resident at St. Anthony. I will not be able to attend any of his services asa I will beout of town. He was such a good man. He will be missed. Keeping you in prayer

Peg Scheidt – May 02 2014 at 1:07 PM

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Neal was a favorite among the Schoenjahn clan - Brian, Ann, Chuck and Jean. A great big bear of a man with the best laugh and deep down goodness. Rest in peace dear cousin.

Ann Wagoner – May 02 2014 at 10:33 AM

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