Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Monica Simons, age 55 of Carroll, passed away early Thursday morning, July 5, 2012 at Regency Park Nursing Home in Carroll following a courageous battle with cancer.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Monday, July 9, 2012 at Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Johnson. Pianist will be Elise Pick. Lectors for the funeral mass will be Nicholas Halbur and Michael Mueller. Gift Bearers will be Kay Chambers, Susan Becker, Carolyn Ehlers and Rose Thomas. Eucharistic Ministers will be Denise Mueller and Mary Ann Borkowski. Casket Bearers will be: Brent Simons, Tyler Simons, Meghan Shelley, Michael Mueller, Dr. Jason Mueller, Nicholas Halbur and Amy Abraham. Monica’s Heartland AEA colleagues and the Pink Ribbon Ladies will form an honor guard for the funeral mass. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.
Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 2:30 p.m. on Sunday where there will be a rosary at 3 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service by Holy Spirit Parish at 5 p.m. The casket will be moved to Holy Spirit Church at 9 a.m. on Monday where visitation will resume until time of the funeral mass.
Memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for the Carroll County Relay for Life or for Kuemper Catholic Schools Elementary Library – Holy Spirit Building.
Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Monica’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.
Born on December 26, 1956 at Carroll, Iowa, Monica was the daughter of Elmer and Leola (Baumhover) Simons. She spent most of her lifetime in the Carroll community and graduated in 1975 from Kuemper Catholic High School. Monica attended and graduated from Briar Cliff and later continued her schooling at the University of South Dakota in Vermillion, graduating in 1982 with a Masters in Speech and Language Pathology. She worked as a Speech and Language Pathologist in Albion, Nebraska for a brief time before returning to the Carroll area where she continued her career with Heartland AEA, retiring in May of 2012. She will be most admired for her dedication to the many children she helped in her specialized field. Monica enjoyed her cat Millie, traveling, Star Trek and walking with her friends. She loved children, especially her nieces and nephews and was a special part of their lives. Monica was active in the Carroll Community Choir, Holy Spirit Parish Spirit Singers, Breast Cancer Support Group, Pink Ribbon Ladies, American Speech-Language & Hearing Association, Iowa Speech- Language & Hearing Association, and was a member of Holy Spirit Church in Carroll.
Monica is survived by her father, Elmer Simons of Carroll; one brother, Greg (Connie) Simons of Carroll; two sisters, Denise (Ron) Mueller of Bettendorf, and Claudia (Joe) Halbur of Carroll; her nieces and nephews: Brent Simons of Carroll, Tyler (Sarah) Simons of Carroll, Meghan (Troy) Shelley of Waukee, Michael (Kyann) Mueller of LeClaire, Dr. Jason (Kristen) Mueller of North Liberty, Nicholas (Joanna) Halbur of Omaha, and Amy (Dr. Mark) Abraham of La Crosse, WI; 10 great nieces and nephews; as well as several aunts, uncles and other extended relatives.
She was preceded in death by her grandparents; and her mother, Leola Simons in April of 2009.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Dear Mr. Simons and family, I just learned of Monica's passing when I read her obituary online, today. Please accept my deepest condolences. I attended graduate school at the University of South Dakota with Monica between 1979 and 1981 or so and we kept in touch through the years. Monica was my closest friend in graduate school and for that I will always be glad. My silliest memory of our time at school was in the first semester we were at USD. The ROTC had a set up at the library in which people could rappel down the side of I.D. Weeks library. So, Monica and I did just that. My fondest memory is getting to see her again in North Dakota a few years after we graduated. Monica was a trooper and she never gave up at anything. Her family was her greatest joy in this world and she was always happy to share that joy with others. May God be near you in your grief and know that I will keep the repose of Monica's soul in my prayers.

Mary Reinhardt – April 08 2013 at 6:20 PM

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I had the pleasure of working with Monica at the elementary sc hool in Manning. I was a sign language interpreter for a deaf student. Monica worked with this student for many years. I have many wonderful memories of Monica. She was a wonderful woman and touched the lives of many children. I learned alot from Monica and will never forget the love, patience and compassion she showed for the children she worked with. I know Monica will be missed by the many lives she touched.

Crista White – July 06 2012 at 10:52 PM

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Special prayers go out to Monica's family. She will be missed.

Jennifer Auen – July 06 2012 at 6:46 PM

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From one Pink Ribbon Lady to another I will truly miss you my dear sister. Watch over us. You will be always in my thoughts and in my heart.

Rose Thomas – July 06 2012 at 11:45 AM

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Monica was one of the first AEA personnel to work with my son Eric. She was always so pleasant and patient with him even though every time he was given a chance a free choice he would choose to have Monica sing and do finger plays to "Itsy Bitsy Spider". She was an extremely courageous woman and will be missed.

Kathy Lage – July 05 2012 at 10:31 PM

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