Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Merle Potthoff, 88 of Halbur, died Thursday, March 7, 2019 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 2 p.m. Monday, March 11, 2019 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. The Celebrant will be Fr. Shinoj Jose. Music will be by Julie Sibbel and the St. Augustine Choir. Mass Servers will be Lucas Reising, and Owen Nepple. Lector will be Phil Markway. Gift Bearers will be Merle’s Granddaughters: Heather, Shannon, Larron, Jennifer, Mandi, Tamie, Stephanie, Rachael, and Madison. Eucharistic Minister will be Beverly Nepple. Casket Bearers will be Merle’s Grandsons: Jay Ryan, Travis Drees, Justin Drees, Christopher Potthoff, Adam Potthoff, Aaron Falke, Josh Potthoff, and Jonah Potthoff. Burial will be in the parish cemetery.

Friends may call at the St. Augustine Church in Halbur, after 4 p.m. on Sunday, where there will be a Rosary, and a Christian Wake Service held at 6 p.m.

Visitation will resume at the church on Monday from 1 p.m. to 1:45 p.m.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Merle’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Merle, the son of Henry and Clementine (Wittrock) Potthoff was born on October 29, 1930 at Carroll, Iowa. He grew up on the family farm northeast of Halbur, and attended St. Augustine School. After his formal education Merle began farming with his father.
On October 16, 1951, Merle was united in marriage to Lila Davis, at Sts. Peter and Paul Catholic Church in Carroll, the couple made their home northeast of Halbur where Merle was engaged in grain and livestock farming. Merle semi-retired from farming at age 65. Although he “retired” he still continued to help his son John farm on a part time basis.

Merle enjoyed country music, attending concerts, playing cards, watching baseball, and golfing. He took great pride in his acreage, planting, and caring for hundreds of mums that lined their lane each year. Merle also enjoyed woodworking, building many different crafts for his children and grandchildren. Most of all, Merle loved the farm life, and all his children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. He was a lifelong member of St. Augustine Church in Halbur.

Left to celebrate Merle’s life is his wife, Lila Potthoff of rural Carroll; 7 children: Sharon Ryan of Perry, Nancy (Patrick) Monjarez of Omaha, Michael Potthoff of Panora, Joan (Randy) Drees of Carroll, John (Gail) Potthoff of Halbur, Brenda (Jim) Falke of Omaha, and Mark (Jane) Potthoff of Polk City; 17 grandchildren 23 great-grandchildren; siblings: Arlene Rupiper of Carroll, Lois Hinners of Carroll, and Joyce (Dick) Wright of Carroll; sister-in-law: Betty Potthoff of Manning, and brother-in-law: Danny Rowedder of Carroll; as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives.

Merle was preceded in death by his parents; his siblings: Carol Rowedder, Mel Potthoff, and Norbert Potthoff; his sister-in-law, Irma Potthoff; his brothers-in-law: Ernie Rupiper, and Don Hinners; a niece, Diane Hinners; his parents-in-law: Percy and Vera Davis; and a step-father-in-law, Harry Laurinet.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Lit a candle in memory of Merle Potthoff

Mary Wernimont – March 09 2019 at 3:41 PM

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I am very sorry for the loss this loving gentleman. Family is everything, and I'm sure he will be greatly missed. His grandfather, was my great grandfather's, Bernard "Barney" Potthoff, brother. Lori Olson Mollenkopf

Lori Mollenkopf – March 13 2019 at 7:13 PM

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Please accept our condolences for the loss of your husband and father. Steve and Sue Seidl

Steve Seidl – March 12 2019 at 9:00 AM

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I don't think I ever remember seeing Mert without a smile. Just a great guy. We played a lot of softball in their yard, and I first learned how to ride a bike going down that big grassy hill (soft landing). Lila cut my hair and was another great excuse to visit. She told me a funny story Sunday about me biting her during one of my haircuts when I was 2 or 3 years old, but I bet she got me confused with Brian! In typical Lila fashion, she blamed herself for surprising me when she grabbed me from behind while I was playing on the floor. I obviously don't remember, but it sounds like something I would've done. Our deepest sympathies. Jeff Potthoff and Family

Jeff Potthoff – March 11 2019 at 4:22 PM

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Midwife Service Family purchased the Medium Dish Garden for the family of Merle Potthoff.

Midwife Service Family – March 11 2019 at 10:22 AM

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