Melvin “Bud” Steinkamp

10/28/1921 –
09/29/2013

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Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Melvin “Bud” Steinkamp, 91 of Arcadia, died Sunday, September 29, 2013 at the Carroll Health Center Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be held at 10:30 a.m. Friday, October 4, 2013 at St. John’s Catholic Church in Arcadia. The Celebrant will be Fr. Gary Snyder. Mass Servers will be Jason Berg and Colin Johnson. Music will be Sandy Wells, along with Darlene Leiting and the St. John’s Choir. Lectors for the funeral mass will be Diana Hoogestraat and Russ Steinkamp. Gift Bearers will be: Sarah Wirtz, Heather Hedrick, Jennifer Miner, Kari Steinkamp, and Katie Haukap. Eucharistic Ministers will be: Diana Hoogestraat and Russ and Mary Jo Steinkamp. Honorary Casket Bearers will be: Sarah Wirtz, Heather Hedrick, Jennifer Miner, Kari Steinkamp, and Katie Haukap. Casket Bearers will be: Christopher Hoogestraat, Ryan Steinkamp, Dan Wernimont, Terry Eich, Randy Eich, Mark Evers, Dustin Eisenbacher and Tyler Eisenbacher. Burial will be in St. John’s Cemetery, Arcadia.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 4:30 p.m. Thursday where there will be a Rosary at 5 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service by St. John’s Parish at 7 p.m.
Memorials may be left at the funeral home or church for St. John’s Parish or the Kuemper Catholic Schools Foundation.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online Condolences for Melvin’s family may be left at www.sharpfuneral.com.
Born on October 28, 1921 at Mt. Carmel, Iowa, Melvin was the third eldest child of Frank and Emma (Damm) Steinkamp. He spent his early childhood at Mt. Carmel until the family moved to their farm near Arcadia. Melvin attended St. John’s School and then began helping his father with the farm operation. On May 22, 1945, he married Bernice Wolterman at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. The couple made their home on their farm east of Arcadia. Bud had a passion for farming, being a great steward of the land; he received an award from the Iowa Soil Conservation for being one of the first farmers to implement terrace farming within his operation. In 1998, Bud and Bernice moved from the country into their new home in the Arcadia community. Bud’s interest in his land never waned; however, he made daily visits to his farm. His family brought him great joy, especially his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. In March of 2013, followed the passing of his beloved wife of 67 years, Bud became a resident of the Carroll Health Center Nursing Home in Carroll where he enjoyed the entire staff. Melvin was a member of St. John’s Parish in Arcadia.

Survivors include his daughter: Diana Hoogestraat and her husband Tom of Glenwood; his son: Russ Steinkamp and his wife Mary Jo of Carroll; his grandchildren: Christopher (Nancy) Hoogestraat of Warrensburg, MO, Sarah (Josh) Wirtz of Nevada, Heather (Shawn) Hedrick of Cambridge, Jennifer (John) Miner of Altoona, Kari Steinkamp of Coralville, Katie (Tom) Haukap of Carroll, and Ryan Steinkamp (fiancé Dani Pille) of Carroll; 8 great-grandchildren: Aiden Hoogestraat, Tyler and Charli Wirtz, Rhett, Grayson, and Crew Hedrick; Natalie and Madelyn Miner; his sisters: Virginia Wernimont of Atlantic, Leota Eich of Ogden, and Neva Whitaker of Orange, CA; his in-laws: Gladys Steinkamp of Arcadia, Darlene (Roger) Koster of Elkader, Millie McCoy of Fonda, Rita Wolterman of Adams, MN, Lucy Wolterman of Jefferson, and Arlene (Denis) Alspach of Carroll; as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives.

Melvin was preceded in death by his parents; his wife Bernice in 2012; his sister, Cleone Evers; and his brothers: Merlin, Ray, and Lorne Steinkamp.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Rufus Boes and family would like to extend our sympathies to Buds family. We have gotten to know Bud and his smiles at Westwood Knolls and recently the Carroll Health Center since Rufus moved in.Bud had been joining us in watching the Hawkeye football games although I think he said he liked Iowa State! We will miss seeing him at dads dinner table also...Bud ,Rufus and Charlie really got along.

cindy lambertz…daughter of rufus boes – October 03 2013 at 3:46 PM

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Diana & Rusty - so sorry to hear of Bud's passing. I know he is in a better place re-united with all his loved ones. Neva

neva Whitaker – October 09 2013 at 8:46 AM

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Lit a candle in memory of Melvin "Bud" Steinkamp

Cindy Ewing – October 01 2013 at 4:01 PM

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This is from the Ewing family, thanks Bud for being a good friend to my Dad and our family. Bernie and you were great neighbors and you both were great to us. Rest in peace. Say hi to all you join and have a few laughs.

Cindy Ewing – October 01 2013 at 4:05 PM

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Peaceful White Lilies Basket was purchased for the family of Melvin "Bud" Steinkamp.

Comment #8487184 – October 01 2013 at 8:43 AM

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