Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Matthew Laing, 37 of Kansas City, Missouri and formerly of Carroll, died unexpectedly on Sunday, June 15, 2025 in Kansas City, Missouri.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m., Monday, June 23, 2025 at St. Lawrence Church – St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm. Mass Servers will be Megan Milligan, Mallory Milligan, and Connor Milligan. Music will be by Kathy Halbur and Kathleen Macke. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jim Feauto. Gift Bearers will be Doug and Laurie Kleymann. Eucharistic Minister will be Ryan Milligan. Honorary Casket Bearers will be the staff of Commercial Savings Bank. Casket Bearers will be Molli Ginger, Tony Ginger, Tim Laing, Leah Laing, Jonas Laing, and Addy Laing. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.

A visitation will be held from 2-4 p.m. on Sunday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. There will be no visitation prior to the Funeral Mass on Monday at the church. In lieu of flowers memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for the Laing family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Matthew Thomas Laing was born on April 17, 1988 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll, Iowa the son of Tom and Betsy (Kleymann) Laing. He went to Kuemper Catholic High School was involved in various activities including cross country which he continued at Morningside College. He completed EMT training while in high school and later continued his medical training in Iowa City becoming a paramedic. He loved his time as a flight nurse saving lives. Matt handled emergency situations with calm efficiency and compassion throughout his life. He was currently working as charge nurse at Monterey Park in Kansas City, Missouri. Traveling, running, spending time with his dogs Mya and Rylie were passions of his.

Matt could confidently walk into any room, instantly making it feel like his own. From a young age, he had a remarkable ability to connect with anyone he met. He embraced life with a natural sense of leadership and a heart full of kindness. Whether it was a furry friend or a family member, Matt treated everyone with the same care and respect. Thoughtful and always remembering special moments, he loved showing up unannounced, reminding us all how much he cared. His light and laughter will be missed but never forgotten.

Matt is survived by his parents Tom and Betsy Laing of Carroll; his brother Tyler Laing of Waukee; his paternal grandparents, Richard and Marilyn Laing of Sioux City; his maternal grandparents, Jerald and Suzanne Kleymann of Carroll; his aunts and uncles: Molli (Tony) Ginger, Tim (Leah) Laing, DeeDee Watkins, Doug (Laurie) Kleymann, and Dave (Lori) Kleymann; his extended family, Tony (Marilyn) McCormack; as well as other family and many friends.

His uncle, Guy Watkins, preceded him in death.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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My condolences from a distant cousin in Minnesota. May the happy memories of Matthew comfort you in this time of sorrow.

Jeff Hoppe – August 19 2025 at 1:58 PM

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Lit a candle in memory of Matthew Laing

Lisa – June 22 2025 at 4:12 AM

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So many memories but the one that meant the most was the phone call in high school to finally tell me what I had already known. It was the first time he had said it out loud. After over an hour on the phone that night through tears, laughter, and lots of reassurance he was finally able to be his entire self. He will always be in my heart & my heart goes out to his family. Matt could light up any room with his contagious smile. He truly will be missed.

Lisa – June 22 2025 at 4:23 AM

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I can’t wait to see you again. You mean the world to me, more than you will ever know. I love you, to infinity and beyond…

Tony McCormack – June 22 2025 at 12:08 PM

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I am so sorry for your loss of such an amazing young man and family member. We will be with him in heaven. Ryan Lull

Ryan Lull – June 22 2025 at 1:44 PM

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