Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Mary Jo Rutten, age 92, of Carroll, passed away Sunday, January 21, 2024 at her home in Carroll after a brief but courageous battle with cancer.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Thursday, January 25, 2024, at St. Lawrence Church – St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm. Con-Celebrant will be Fr. Brian Feller. Music will be by Kathy Halbur and Kathleen Macke. Lectors will be Lindsey Shelton and Holly Janning. Gift Bearers will be Henry Janning, Oliver Janning, and Graham Janning. Eucharistic Minister will be Joan Rutten. Casket Bearers will be Luke Shelton, Parker Foley, Denny Rutten, Jim Rutten, Allan Rutten and Joe Janning. Burial will be at 2:30 p.m. at Glendale Cemetery in Des Moines, Iowa, 4909 University Ave. Des Moines, Iowa 50311.

Visitation will be held from 9 to 9:45 a.m. Thursday at the church.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Mary Jo’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Mary Jo, the daughter of August and Serena (Gentile) Spagnolo was born on April 15, 1931, in Des Moines, Iowa. On October 13, 1956, Mary Jo was united in marriage to Gerald Kelley. The couple made their home in Kansas City.

Mary Jo enjoyed entertaining and cooking for friends and family in her home. She was a long-time member of Sweet Adelines. A true entrepreneur, she started several successful businesses over the years. She was a friend to everyone she met.

Mary Jo is survived by her daughter: Kathleen Shelton; grandchildren: Lindsey Shelton, Luke Shelton, Serena Kelley, and Mathew Kelley, JR.; great-grandchildren: Parker Foley and Tai Ana Marie. Also surviving are her step-children: Allan (Cindy) Rutten, Dennis (Joan) Rutten, James (Mary) Rutten, and Lisa (Philip) LaPenna as well as many step-grandchildren and step-great-grandchildren.

Mary Jo was preceded in death by her first husband, Gerald Kelley in 2005; her second husband Richard “Dick” Rutten in 2023, and her son, Matt Kelley.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Mary Jo's family: We were happy to become acquainted with Mary Jo when she moved to Carroll. She was such a sweet person, and we both enjoyed talking with her. She treated others in a special way and always took time for them. We will miss her. Our thoughts will be with you all. Wes and CJ Niles, Carroll

Wes & CJ Niles – January 22 2024 at 10:49 PM

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Mary Jo's Family, We became acquainted with Mary Jo when she came to Carroll and became Mrs. Dick Rutten. We enjoyed our time with the Ruttens, sharing our common interests. Eternal Rest granted to Mary Jo, May she enjoy the rewards of a life well spent here on earth! Roger and Kaye Stock Arndorfer

Kaye Stock Arndorfer – January 24 2024 at 11:13 AM

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My sympathies and condolences go to the Mary jo's family so glad she and Richard made out to the farm ,she really enjoyed it. God bless her and her family. Sincerely Mark g bruening

Mark bruening – January 24 2024 at 1:24 PM

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Aunt Mary Jo was the sweetest person and she & Uncle Jerry always came to visit us; they came to see my parents when they were sick and that meant so much! She was loved by all of Jack & Rose Kelley's family. Rest in peace now. Sending love to Kathleen Mary and family. 🤍🕊️️🕯️️

Mary Kelley-Vaughn – January 27 2024 at 12:09 AM

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Beautiful in Blue was purchased for the family of Mary Jo Rutten.

Comment #49292296 – January 22 2024 at 3:59 PM

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