Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Mary Boje, 91 of Harlan and formerly of Carroll, died Sunday, March 25, 2012 at her residence in Harlan.
Funeral Services will be held at 10 a.m. Thursday, March 29, 2012 at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. Officiating will be Fr. Timothy Johnson from Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Carroll. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.
Mary’s family will receive friends beginning at 9 a.m. Thursday at the funeral home until time of the service.
Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Mary’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.
Born on September 17, 1920 at Carroll, Iowa, Mary was the daughter of Albert and Mary (Wiederhold) Dinan. She grew up in the Carroll Community and graduated from Carroll High School. Following her high school education Mary attended Duchesne College in Omaha where she studied music. Mary returned to Carroll and was married to Harold Boje on November 30, 1939. Harold and Mary made their home in Carroll where Harold and his brother Elmer owned and operated Boje Construction. In 1970 they moved to Colorado Springs where they ran a campground for 15 years. Harold and Mary returned to Iowa and made their home in Harlan where she was currently living. Mary enjoyed shopping, attending garage sales, arts and crafts, and socializing with her family and friends. She was a member of St. Michael’s Parish in Harlan, and formerly a member of St. Lawrence and Holy Spirit Parishes in Carroll.
Survivors include her sons: Brian Boje of Harlan and Scott Boje and his wife Sheila of Kirkman; 17 grandchildren; 41 great-grandchildren; 3 great-great-grandchildren; her son-in-law, Robert (Bev) Arkfeld of Defiance; as well as other extended relatives.
She was preceded in death by her parents; husband Harold in 1989; three daughters: Beverly Mayerhoffer, Barbara Landon, and Linda Arkfeld; and one brother, Dick Dinan.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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I am the best friend of Amber Boje (Mary’s granddaughter) and I have had the privilege to get to know Mary over the years when she would come to visit Amber Boje. Mary was a wonderful woman that has touched my heart in so many ways. She was always full of spirit and always but a smile on my face. I am truly blessed to have known Mary. My heart goes out to all her family members in their time of sorrow. Love, Julie McMillan

Julie McMillan – March 28 2012 at 1:08 PM

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I am the daughter of Enguene boje and Mary took care of me when I was a baby. I have met her a couple of times when she came to California to visit Bev. She was a special person and full of life. I visited her in Carroll and Harlan whenever I went to visit my family in Harlan. Our prayers and love go out to all the family and Mary will remain in our prayers and thoughts. Love, Deanna and John Franco

Deanna Lee Franco – March 27 2012 at 11:55 AM

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