Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Lois J. Duffy, age 85, of Carroll died Saturday, November 12, 2016 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 3 p.m. on Thursday, November 17, 2016 at Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Carroll. The celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Johnson. Music will be provided by Barb McDermott and the Holy Spirit Choir. Ben Parrott and Colin Parrott will serve as lectors. Gift Bearers will be Patrick and Mary Parrott. Casket Bearers will be Ben Parrott, Colin Parrott, Joshua Eberle and Noah Eberle. Burial will be at St. Ann’s Cemetery near Vail.

Visitation will begin at the church at 2 p.m. on Thursday, November 17, 2016 and continue until the time of the funeral mass.

Memorials may be left at the church to be directed to Holy Spirit Parish.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Lois’ family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born on July 1, 1931 at Carroll, Iowa, Lois was the daughter of Albert and Josephine Duffy. She spent her younger years in the Maple River, Arcadia, and Vail communities, and in 1949 she graduated from St. Angela’s Academy. She was employed her entire working career as a telephone operator for Northwestern Bell in Carroll.

Lois enjoyed bingo, caring for animals, socializing at the congregate meals, baking cookies, collecting snowmen, spending time with her friends and family, listening to country music, especially Alan Jackson, and taking walks. Lois was a member of the Telephone Pioneers and Holy Spirit Parish.

Lois is survived by her niece and nephews: Michael (Cathy) Parrott of Spokane, WA, Patrick (Mary) Parrott of Spirit Lake, IA and Mary Jo (Steve) Eberle of Bedford, TX; seven great-nieces and great-nephews, and nine great-great-nieces and nephews; as well as many cousins and other extended relatives.

Lois was preceded in death by her parents: Albert and Josephine Duffy, her brother Edward Duffy, her sister Rita Olberding Parrott, and a great-niece Andrea Parrott Ondarza.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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What a wonderful woman!!! She always helped at the Carroll Congregate Meal site. She will be truely missed. May GOD wrap his arms around her!!!

Susan Teter-Lord – November 12 2016 at 7:42 PM

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My wonderful great aunt. I have neat young memories of visits and mail from her and my Grandma Rita because we lived far away. It was also really nice because they would bring our fun cousins Annie and Colin. She always looked so nice and ready to go out on the town. I love you Lois. Love, Jocelyn Toney(Parrott)

Jocelyn Toney – November 14 2016 at 8:23 PM

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My Deepest Sympathy. Losing someone you love is so difficult, and I am so sorry you are going through that. Please find comfort in knowing that God is aware of what you are going through, and has invited you to "throw all your anxiety on him, because he cares for you." Please know that when you are sad, hurting, or just really, really need someone to talk to, God is there for you, waiting to help you through your troubled times. I sincerely hope you find these words comforting, and they give you the strength and courage you need to make it through this very difficult time. (1 Peter 5:7)

Hope Paradise – November 15 2016 at 10:35 AM

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Sorry for your loss Duffy and Parrott families. Lois was a good hearted soul.

Gerry Kraus – November 15 2016 at 11:25 AM

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Lit a candle in memory of Lois Duffy

Susan Teter-Lord – November 12 2016 at 5:47 PM

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