Lawrence “Larry” Onken

08/17/1946 –
04/13/2021

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Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Lawrence “Larry” Herbert Onken, son of the late Virgil and Emmarita Tiefenthaler Onken-Lawrence was born August 17, 1946 in Carroll, IA and passed away peacefully at Regency Park Nursing & Rehabilitation Center on April 13, 2021 at the age of 74 years, 7 months, and 26 days.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, April 20, 2021 at St. John Paul II Parish – St. Lawrence Church beginning at 10:30 a.m. The Celebrant will be Fr Kevin Richter. Music will be provided by Jane Heithoff as the accompanist and Kathleen Macke as the cantor. Honorary casket bearers for the service are Kevin Onken, Chad Onken, Scott Onken, Mike Williams, and Kyle Williams. Casket Bearers for the service are Don Keller Ron Macke, Steve Hausman, John Hausman, Brian Hausman, and Matt Hausman. Burial will follow in the Carroll Cemetery.

A visitation will be held on Monday from 5 to 7 p.m. at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a prayer service that is open to the public at 7 p.m. An additional visitation without greeting the family will be held on Tuesday morning from 9:30 to 10 a.m. at the church. Those in attendance of Larry’s services are required to wear a face covering and abide by social distancing practices.

Memorial contributions may be directed to the family.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Larry’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Larry graduated from Kuemper Catholic High School with the class of 1965. He was united in marriage to the love of his life Susan Kay Hausman on February 23, 1974 at St. Johns Catholic Church in Arcadia, IA. This union was blessed with one son, Ryan Christopher born on March 2, 1976.

Larry started off working as a painter for Luchtel Painting in Carroll. After a few years of painting, he started a career with Pepsi-Cola Bottling Company in Carroll, IA. After 25 years at Pepsi, he took an early retirement due to health reasons.

Larry had many hobbies and interests over the years. He was a life-long member of St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. He was also a member of the Moose Club in Carroll. He enjoyed fishing, wood working, hunting, classic car shows, occasional gambling trips with Susan, and of course time with his family. He was especially proud of his 1972 Chevelle that he purchased new from his father and he still has to present day. Larry took very good care of his vehicles. For many years he could be found at Kerp’s Bar on Sunday afternoons with his buddies. He rarely missed the annual family Summer trip to Lake Okoboji.

Over the past few years, Larry’s health had declined, but his strength and strong spirit never wavered. He would always greet you with a big smile and ready for a visit.

He will be forever cherished in the lives of his spouse Susan Onken of Carroll, IA, his son Ryan (Nichole) Onken of Carroll, IA, 3 Grandchildren: Kyle Emery of Cedar Rapids, IA, Molly Emery of Carroll, IA, and Bently Onken of Carroll, IA, his brother: Vern Onken of Arcadia, IA, Mother-in-law Vergene Hausman, 3 brothers-in-law: Steve (Lisa) Hausman of Carroll, IA, John (Julie) Hausman of Halbur, IA, and Brian (Jean) Hausman of Arcadia, IA. 3 sisters-in-law: Kate (Glenn) Williams of Moline, IL, Barb Halverson of Scottsdale, AZ, and Kathy Onken of Omaha, NE, and numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

Larry is preceded in death by his parents Virgil and Emmarita Onken, two brothers Darrell “Doc” Onken and Myron Onken, his father-in-law: Louis Hausman, and a brother-in-law: George Halverson.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Larry, or "Laro" to close friends and family, was always a delight. A very nice man with a quiet, peaceful but strong manner and always with a ready smile. We will miss him dearly.

Joan Bundy – April 14 2021 at 2:50 PM

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I remember he always used to say hey buddy and that ment A lot to me and he was always a jokester I miss him a lot.💔

Bently onken – April 14 2021 at 8:45 PM

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Our thoughts and prayers to the Larry Onken family.

Leon and Cathy Williams – April 15 2021 at 8:26 PM

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Joan Bundy – April 14 2021 at 2:51 PM

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Lit a candle in memory of Lawrence "Larry" Onken

Bently onken – April 14 2021 at 8:47 PM

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