Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Kathleen Henkenius, age 65, of Carroll, Iowa, died Wednesday, October 20, 2010, at her residence following a long illness.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 2 P.M., Sunday, October 24, 2010, at St. Lawrence Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Father Timothy Schott. Lectors will be her sons, Michael Henkenius and Patrick Henkenius. Gift Bearers will be her daughter, Mary Beth Wiskus, daughter-in-law, Monica Henkenius, and her grandchildren. Mass Servers will be Brian Ricke, Jared Henkenius, and Audrey Henkenius. Extraordinary Minister of the Eucharist will be Jerome Henkenius. Honorary Pallbearers will be Kathy Irlbeck, Evie Wieland, Lois Zimmerman, Dorothy Pudenz, Mary Summers, Elaine Corsbie, and her sisters of Alpha Lambda Chapter of Beta Sigma Phi Sorority. Casket Bearers will be James Tierney, Jr., Thomas Tierney, Dr. Dennis Tierney, Jim Pedelty, Richard Henkenius, Dennis Henkenius, and Bill Henkenius. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.
Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 5 P.M. Saturday. There will be a Christian wake service at 7:30 P.M. Saturday by St. Lawrence Parish. Visitation will resume at 10 A.M. Sunday at the Sharp Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers memorials may be left at the funeral home or church for the Kuemper Catholic Schools Foundation or the Diocese of Sioux City Religious Vocations Fund.
Kathie was born on March 17, 1945, at Omaha, Nebraska, the daughter of Dr. James and M. Virginia (Heires) Tierney. She attended St. Lawrence School in Carroll, graduated from Kuemper High School in 1963, and graduated from Duchesne College of the Sacred Heart in Omaha, Nebraska, in 1967. Kathie and Vern Henkenius were married on December 27, 1967, at St. Lawrence Church in Carroll. The couple made their home in Carroll and from 1974 to 1979 lived at Dallas Center, from 1979 to 1980 lived at Odebolt, and in 1980 returned to Carroll to make their home. Kathie taught at St. Lawrence School in Carroll from 1967 to 1969 and then dedicated her life to being a homemaker and raising her family. She was a member of St. Lawrence Parish, serving her parish as an Extraordinary Minister of the Eucharist, and treasured her many years as a C.C.D. teacher. She was also a member of Alpha Lambda Chapter of Beta Sigma Phi Sorority and the Carroll Area Serra Club. Kathie dearly loved her family, and enjoyed playing bridge, family activities, going to the Adoration Chapel, and attending Daily Mass.
Kathie is survived by her husband, Vern Henkenius of Carroll; her children, Michael Henkenius and wife Monica of Lincoln, Nebr., Patrick Henkenius of Urbandale, and Mary Beth Wiskus and husband Todd of West Des Moines; her grandchildren, Zachary, Andrew, Sally, and Gregory Henkenius, and Matthew Wiskus; her parents, Dr. James and Virginia Tierney of Carroll; a sister, Mary Fran Pedelty and husband Jim of Carroll; brothers, James Tierney Jr. and wife Mary Jo of Centennial, Colo., Thomas Tierney of Seattle, Wash., and Dr. Dennis Tierney and wife Judy of Omaha, Nebr.; and brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, Jerome and Norma Henkenius of Arcadia, Gordon Wiebers of Denison, Jan Werts of Fountain Valley, Calif., Richard and Cheryl Henkenius of Omaha, Nebr., Jean and Mark Elliott of St. Louis, Missouri, Dennis and Cathy Henkenius of Omaha, Nebr., and Bill and Cheryl Henkenius of Urbandale.
She was preceded in death by her grandparents, Arthur and Frances Heires and Ray and Mabel Tierney; her parents-in-law, Louis and Louise Henkenius; and a sister-in-law, Marlene Wiebers.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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kathy was a devoted mother, wife, and family supporter. she was also a devoted Christian. she will be greatly missed by her family, and the carroll, iowa community our prayers are with vern and the henkenius family.

david lynch – October 25 2010 at 5:19 PM

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Vern, So sorry to hear about Kathy. I was a student at KHS class of '69. Was so glad to see you and several other teachers at our class reunion at Santa Maria winery. You have my deepest sympathy and prayers to your family. Marla (Wiederien) Meister

Marla(Wiederien) Meister – October 24 2010 at 1:39 PM

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Our thoughts and prayers are with Kathie and her family.

Bradley and Jill Henkenius – October 23 2010 at 2:06 PM

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Kathie was always a cheery, upbeat college friend at Duchesne College in Omaha.We carpooled to student teach Senior Year. She was so in love with you Vern and through the years we exchanged the proverbial Christmas letter filled with pride of her family. I particularly remember Michael. Please give her parents my love and to all the family as well. She is at peace and wishes the same to all of us as we await our eternal homecoming celebration together once again.

Collette Kerr Shaughnessy – October 23 2010 at 1:10 PM

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To the family of Kathleen Henkenius: You have my sympathy upon the death of Kathie. I remember her as a wonderful,loving and caring person. Kathie and all of you will be remembered specially in prayer in the Chapel of Perpetual Adoration of the Franciscan Sisters in La Crosse. May God grant her the fullness of life and comfort you in your sorrow.

Jolyce Greteman, FSPA – October 23 2010 at 11:52 AM

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