Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

On March 16, 2019, James Anthony Polking, loving father, brother and grandfather, passed away peacefully at the Iowa Veteran’s Home in Marshalltown, Iowa. He was 87 years old.

Known by most as Jim, and frequently answering to Jimmy and Jimbo, he grew up on the Century farm his grandfather established in 1874, located two-and one-half miles southwest of Breda, Iowa.

The second oldest of six children, Jim cherished his memories of life on the farm, except for the daily chore of milking the cows. He treasured the values he learned from his parents and the farm life and passed them on to his children.

Jim married Audrey Schieffer in 1952 and shortly thereafter began his tour of duty with the United States Army. He served as a Communications Chief in South Korea until September of 1954. Jim, along with 10 other men from Carroll County, were inducted into the Army on the same day and all returned from Korea on the same ship.

One of Jim’s first paying jobs off the farm was as a truck driver. He learned that he loved life on the road. He developed a lifelong career in direct sales, including a stint as an auctioneer, marketing everything from accordions to encyclopedias to insurance to vacuum cleaners and, finally, pre-need funerals, his favorite of all.

Jim was a gifted storyteller with a wicked sense of humor and a remarkable memory for details, especially from the past. Without missing a beat, he could tell you exactly how many inches of snow fell in January of 1936.

Jim is reunited with his parents Clem and Anna; his dear sister, Phyllis Mae; and brothers, Bill and Joe.

Jim is lovingly remembered and missed by his family: brothers John Polking (Stevie Coppin), Paul Polking (Joan), sister-in-law Peggy Polking, widow of brother Bill, and sister-in-law Lynn Strickland, widow of brother Joe; children Dan Polking (Chris), Terri Hale (John), Dave Polking and Barbara Pruitt (Don); grandchildren Tiffinni Berggren (Joe Salvaggi), Nicholas Shell (Nickie), Daniel Polking Jr., Rebecca Shell, Wesley Powell and Hannah Shell; great grandchildren AmayaLynn Starr, Owyn, Tayven, Weston and Nikolai and many nieces, nephews and friends.

A funeral mass to celebrate Jim’s life, and his brother Joe Polking, who passed away on June 8, 2018, will be held at 10:30 a.m., Thursday, May 30, 2019 at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. Burial will be in St. Bernard’s Cemetery in Breda with military honors conducted by the Breda American Legion.

Visitation will begin at St. Bernard’s Church in Breda after 5 p.m. on Wednesday, May 29, 2019 with a Christian Wake Service at 7 p.m. Additional visitation will be held one hour prior to services on Thursday at the church.

Following the burial at St. Bernard’s Cemetery please join the Polking families at the Breda American Legion Hall for a luncheon. Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Breda and online condolences may be left for the Polking families at www.sharpfuneral.com.

For those wishing to provide memorials, the family suggests the Iowa Veteran’s Home, 1301 Summit St, Marshalltown, IA 50158, in Jim’s name and the Animal Rescue League Iowa, Inc., Attn: Donations, 5452 NE 22nd Street, Des Moines, IA 50313-2528, in Joe’s name.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Breda, Iowa

102 S 5th St, Breda, IA, 51436

712-673-2828

[email protected]

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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1 file added to the album Jim and Joe

Terri Hale – March 19 2019 at 11:19 AM

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Troy, Dad spoke of you often. He considered you a dear friend and I know he missed you. Thank you for your kind words. Terri

Terri Hale – May 22 2019 at 11:24 PM

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John Polking – May 11 2019 at 10:56 AM

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Jimmy and his dad.

Terri Hale – March 19 2019 at 6:42 PM

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A boy and his dog.

Terri Hale – March 19 2019 at 6:42 PM

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