Howard “Butch” J. Heisterkamp

01/06/1939 –
09/14/2012

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Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Howard J. “Butch” Heisterkamp, age 73 of Carroll, died late Friday evening, September 14, 2012 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be at 10:30 a.m. on Tuesday, September 18, 2012 at Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Johnson. Music will be by Barb McDermott and the Holy Spirit Choir with John Wagner as soloist. Lectors for the funeral mass will be Butch’s daughter, Kim Vandendriessche and Butch’s granddaughters: Jamie Vandendriessche, Kristin Etherington, Marisa Heisterkamp, and Katie Jackson. Gift Bearers will be Butch’s children: Terri Heisterkamp and Doug Heisterkamp. Casket Bearers will be Butch’s grandsons: Jacob Heisterkamp, Josh Heisterkamp, Jonathan Heisterkamp, Joel Heisterkamp, Bryce Vandendriessche, and Zach Heisterkamp. The Breda Catholic Order of Foresters will form an honor guard for the funeral mass. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.
Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 4:30 p.m. on Monday where there will be a rosary at 5 p.m. by the Breda Catholic Order of Foresters and a Christian Wake Service at 7 p.m. by Holy Spirit Parish. The casket will be moved to Holy Spirit Church at 9 a.m. on Tuesday where visitation will resume until time of the funeral mass.
Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Butch’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.
Born on January 6, 1939 at Carroll, Iowa, Howard J. Heisterkamp was the son of Leo “Blackie” and Leonella (Wess) Heisterkamp. Butch attended St. Bernard’s School and graduated with the Class of 1956 from St. Bernard’s High School. Following his formal education he worked along with his father at Breda Auto. On August 1, 1959 he was united in marriage to Kay Fleskes at St. Lawrence Church in Carroll. Over a span of 40 years Butch managed several different car businesses in Iowa and South Dakota. In the late seventies he ran for the Iowa State Senate and later became the Carroll County Chairman for the Democratic Party. Butch and Kay retired to the Carroll Community in 2000. He was an avid Cyclones and Yankees fan, loved the outdoors, enjoyed his dogs, Charlie and Bogie and loved playing golf. Butch was devoted to his family and was always interested and involved in his grandchildren’s lives. He was past Exalted Ruler of the Elks Club, member of the Breda Catholic Order of Foresters, and was a member of Holy Spirit Parish in Carroll.
Survivors include his wife of 53 years, Kay Heisterkamp of Carroll; his children: Kim (Mike) Vandendriessche of Cedar Falls, Dave (Deb) Heisterkamp of Polk City, Terri Heisterkamp of Roland, and Doug Heisterkamp of Johnston; 10 grandchildren; 2 great-grandchildren; his sisters: Bonnie Henrich of Iowa Falls, Shirley (Ron) Longacre of Bellevue, NE, and Jayne (Gary) Koster of Henderson, NV; one brother, Ken (Marlene) Heisterkamp of Rapid City, SD; his sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law: Annette (Bob) Oswald of Carroll, Vera (Duane) Sporrer of Carroll, Judie (Tex) Adams of Esterville, and Jack (Shirley) Fleskes of Highlands Ranch, CO; as well as other extended relatives and many friends.
Butch was preceded in death by his parents; and his in-laws: Pat (Tex) Sturm and Don Henrich.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Kay and family: May the Lord hold you tightly in the palm of His hand during your time of sorrow.

Carol Killeen Miller – September 24 2012 at 12:44 PM

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Our deepest sympathy to all of the Heisterkamp family. We will always remember Butch's great sense of humor and ready smile. So many great baseball memories with Butch years ago. God rest his soul Larry & Diane

Larry & Diane Wilberding – September 20 2012 at 7:10 PM

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Even though I never got to meet Butch, I feel I know him based on the hundreds of stories Terri has shared about her amazing dad. What a wonderful and exciting life he lead, and I know what a gap losing someone so vital and important will leave. Hopefully as your family has had time to share memories, you will realize those we love are forever a part of our lives as they live on in our hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Tammy Dickinson-Ferrell – September 18 2012 at 4:59 PM

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Our deepest sympathy Kay & Family. Thank you for being such good friends with Leroy & Norma all these years. Butch was always so happy and jolly. He always knew all of us too! May God Bless him!

Bruce & Mae Vonnahme – September 18 2012 at 11:52 AM

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As a friend of Terri's, I wanted to send my deepest sympathies and to let you, Terri and your family, know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Although I only met and saw Butch on a few occasions, he was a GREAT guy with a wonderful personality, much like you Terri! I always saw the love and great admiration you had for your father. All my best..

Rhonda Mont – September 17 2012 at 11:50 AM

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