Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Helen Wieland, 96, of Carroll, died Saturday, January 11, 2014 at St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Thursday, January 16, 2014 at Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Johnson. Music for the funeral mass will be by Barb McDermott, Holy Spirit Choir, and John Wagner as soloist. Lector for the funeral mass will be Helen’s nephew, Kevin Kelly. Gift Bearers will be Dr. Norman and Ann Schulz. Eucharistic Minister will be Florence Oswald.

Casket Bearers will be Helen’s nieces and nephews: Michael Kelly, Timothy Kelly, Lonnie Kelly, Dennis Kelly, Kevin Kelly, Carol Kelly, Kathleen Reinhardt, and Bob Reinhardt. The members of Legion of Mary and St. Anthony Hospital Auxiliary will form an honor guard for the funeral mass. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 3:30 p.m. on Wednesday where there will be a Legion of Mary rosary at 4 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service by Holy Spirit Parish at 6:30 p.m.

The casket will be moved to Holy Spirit Church at 9 a.m. on Thursday where visitation will resume until time of the funeral mass.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Helen’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born on March 3, 1917 at Fonda, Iowa, Helen was the daughter of John and Laura (Quirk) Finegan. At a young age her family moved to the Carroll community where Helen attended St. Joseph’s School and later graduated from St. Angela Academy with the Class of 1935.

She worked in sales at Kelly Shoe Store for many years where she met her husband Jim and the couple were married on May 28, 1963 at St. Francis Chapel in Lacrosse, Wisconsin. Helen and Jim made their home on the Wieland family farm two miles east of Carroll where Jim was engaged in grain and livestock farming. In 1981 the couple moved from the farm into Carroll.

Helen enjoyed gardening, cooking, reading, walking, and took a tremendous amount of pride in her Irish Heritage. With a strong devotion to her faith, Helen was active in Holy Spirit Parish where she was a longtime member of the choir, as well as a member of the St. Anthony Hospital Auxiliary and Legion of Mary. She was honored in 2012 by the auxiliary for being one of its founding members and for her role as one of the organizers of the hospital’s gift shop.

Helen is survived by several nieces, nephews, and many friends.

She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband James Wieland in 1992; her sister Alice Kelly; and her brother, Merle John Finegan.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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sincere sympathy to Helen's family and all her friends, she was a true irish lady and always ready to share a story too..her spirit was always fun...I hope her angel wings are "green" !!! sincerely, jean and bill snyder

jean snyder – January 12 2014 at 9:57 PM

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Very special Irish lady!

Sherry Bolton – January 14 2014 at 8:25 AM

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Helen was such a joy to be around and I have so many fond memories of her. My deepest sympathy to all the Kelly family especially Kathleen and Bob. She will now be with Jim and the rest of her family, watch out St. Patty's Day!!!!! Mary Lou (Meister)Dopheide

Mary Lou(Meister)Dopheide – January 15 2014 at 3:30 PM

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Dear Members of Helen's Family, I was saddened to hear of Helen's passing. My sympathy to you. I am Nina Akin. Our families were neighbors for generations. I know that my Uncle Dick worked with Helen at Kelly's and they were good friends. Several years ago Dick and his wife came to Carroll from Texas for a class reunion. They made a point of visiting with Helen because of their close friendship. I also visited with Helen once asking some genealogy questions. She was a delight to talk with. I will keep Helen in my prayers. I know God has welcomed her into His eternal Happiness. Sympathies, Nina

Nina Akin – January 15 2014 at 9:09 PM

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Helen belonged to our Franciscan Prayer Group that meets monthly. She was a beautiful lady and it seemed very natural for her to share her love for God with all of us. We will miss her but know that God was waiting for her with open arms!! Pat Vogl Arcadia

Pat Vogl – January 14 2014 at 8:17 PM

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