Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Helen Ann Wessling, 84 of Breda, died Friday, November 7, 2014 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, November 11, 2014 at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. The Celebrant will be Fr. Gary Snyder. Mass Servers will be Matt Wessling and Caleb Wessling. Music for the funeral mass will be by Marilyn Hundling and the St. Bernard’s Choir. Lector will be Jean Eichmeier. Gift Bearers will be Madison Wessling and Tiffany Jacobs. Eucharistic Minister will be Bill Stork. Honorary Casket Bearers will be Helen’s granddaughters. Casket Bearers will be grandchildren: Alec Wessling, Jared Greiner, Jacob Wessling, Jordan Wessling, Nicole Wessling, Melissa Torres, Elizabeth Wessling, and Tiffany Jacobs. Burial will be in the parish cemetery. The Breda Catholic Order of Foresters will form an honor guard for the funeral mass.

Friends may call at St. Bernard’s Church in Breda after 4 p.m. on Monday where there will be a rosary at 5 p.m. by the Breda Catholic Order of Foresters and a Christian Wake Service at 7 p.m.
Visitation will resume at the Sharp Funeral Home in Breda at 9 a.m. on Tuesday until time of the funeral mass.

In lieu of flowers memorials may be left at the church for St. Bernard’s Choir or the St. Bernard’s Cemetery Fund. Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Breda and online condolences may be left for Helen’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Helen Ann was born on May 6, 1930 at Carroll, Iowa, the daughter of Henry and Helen (Julich) Stork. She attended school in Mt. Carmel through the 5th grade and later graduated from St. Bernard’s High School with the Class of 1948. Following her schooling Helen was employed at Breda Hardware and Prenger & Hiebler Market until 1951.

On January 22, 1951 she was united in marriage to Don Wessling at St. Bernard’s Church in Breda with Fr. JP Hausman officiating. To this union were 12 children; and her children and her husband were always the love of her life. From 1978-1999 Helen was employed at Zeke’s in Breda where she waited tables and also was a cook.

She loved to dance, sing in mixed choir, bird watch, and star gaze. Helen also enjoyed playing slot machines, puzzles and crosswords and was a lifelong St. Louis Cardinals Fan. She loved decorating for the holidays and hosting her entire family.

Helen was a member of St. Bernard’s Parish, Parish Choir, Breda Catholic Order of Foresters, and National Catholic Society of Foresters.

Helen is survived by 5 sons: Jim (Amy) Wessling of Rosemount, MN, Jerry Wessling of Breda, Tom (Norma) Wessling of Breda, Bob (Linda) Wessling of Carroll, and Joe (Tammy) Wessling of Carroll; 6 daughters: Karen Wessling of Boulder, CO, Marilyn Wessling of Carroll, Christy (Jim) Sondall of Richland, WA, Julie Wilhite of Breda, Kathy (Kellie) Bork of Remsen, and Ann (Michael) Solum of Apply Valley, MN; 20 grandchildren; 7 great-grandchildren; two sisters: Julie Stork of Carroll, and Sister Mary Myron of LaCrosse, WI; her sister-in-law, Ann Stork of Ortega, CA; as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives.

Helen was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Don; a daughter, JoEllen Wessling; a granddaughter, Mallory Jo Wessling; her sisters: Margie Ballard, Josie Reinken, and Paula Stork; her brothers: Vic, Richard, Johnny, Matt, Fred, Joe an Hank Stork.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Breda, Iowa

102 S 5th St, Breda, IA, 51436

712-673-2828

[email protected]

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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I will always remember enjoying milkshakes at Grandma & Grandpa's house! When Tiff and I would be sick, we would most likely be served milkshakes no matter what ;-) Love you & Miss you!

Nicole Wessling – November 09 2014 at 12:35 AM

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Though I had not been to Breda to see the family for many yrs., until the multigenerational reunion two yrs ago..I will always fondly remember Aunt Helen, her warmth and welcoming us into her home. Visiting w/the family,making dinner w/all in her kitchen..and listening to the stories and antics of all of our cousins..we felt at "home" and cherish the time we spent with everyone. I have told my sons about some of the experiences of the Wessling family..growing up w/lots of sibs.. Aunt Helen looked so much like our father (John Stork)..and I can see the family resemblances among my own sibs.. You are all in our thoughts and prayers and so sorry that we could not be there to express our sympathy in person.. Pamela Stork Reznick and John Stork..your St. Louis, MO cousins..

Pamela Stork Reznick – November 09 2014 at 10:00 PM

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Deepest Sympathy all of the Wessling family, I know you all have many special memories and your mom will never be forgotten. Sorry I missed the services for your mom, you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I will never forget working with Helen Ann in Zekes, as well as Christy, Julie and Kathy. I had many fun nights with you guys in Zekes. Marilyn living below you in the apartment on Adam St. So sorry I missed seeing all of you. With Sympathy Judy (Bachman) Handlos

Judy Handlos – November 12 2014 at 7:14 PM

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I will miss Helen Ann so much. She was always so happy to visit when I would see her. I have very fond memories of her down at Zeke's. Always a good time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Shannon Reising – November 10 2014 at 11:54 AM

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Our Deepest Sympathy, Norma & Tom and Family! Joe & Linda Schaller

Joe & Linda Schaller – November 10 2014 at 12:24 PM

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