Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Frank Gehling, 87 of Carroll, died Saturday, November 2, 2013 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be at 11 a.m. Wednesday, November 6, 2013 at Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Johnson. Music will be by Barb McDermott, Holy Spirit Choir, with John Wagner as soloist. Lectors for the funeral mass will be Frank’s granddaughters: Jill Running, Melanie Daniel, Sosie Gehling, and Alison Schroeder. Gift Bearers will be Frank’s granddaughters: Gretchen Bavlnka, Casey Coulter, Holly Venteicher, Lindsey Gehling, Sada Gehling, and Rebecca Schroeder. Frank’s granddaughters will also form an honor guard for the funeral mass. Casket Bearers will be Frank’s grandsons: Jerry Gehling II, Ted Gehling, Nick Coulter, Jason Gehling, Ryan Gehling, Steve Pudenz, Seth Gehling, Stone Gehling, Joseph Schaefer, and Joshua Schaefer. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll with military honors conducted by the Carroll American Legion.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 4:30 p.m. on Tuesday where there will be a rosary at 5 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to Holy Spirit Church at 9:30 a.m. on Wednesday where visitation will resume until time of the funeral mass.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Frank’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born on October 13, 1926 at Carroll, Iowa, Frank Joseph was the son of Theodore and Catherine (Hoffman) Gehling. He spent his entire lifetime in the Carroll area and attended St. Peter and St. Paul School and then Carroll High School. Frank then helped his family with their farm operation. On June 19, 1945 Frank was united in marriage to Norma Jean Schulte at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. Following their marriage he served in the United States Navy during World War II and returned to Carroll following his honorable discharge. Frank and Jean made their home just south of Carroll where they raised their family and were grain and livestock farmers until retirement when they moved into town. He enjoyed fishing, tending to his flowers, his garden, and being active in his grandchildren and great grandchildren’s lives. Frank had served on the Farmers Elevator Board of Directors; and was a member of Holy Spirit Parish in Carroll where he was an usher and also involved on numerous church boards over the years.

Survivors include his wife Norma Jean Gehling of Carroll; his children: Sharon Coulter and her husband Charles of St. Louis, MO, Dennis Gehling and his wife Patricia of Carroll, Jeanine Ann “Jackie” and her husband Randy Pudenz of Carroll, Mark Gehling and his wife Stacy of Carroll, and Marcia Schaefer and her fiancé Jeff Scott of Wall Lake; his daughter-in-law: Corlys Gehling of Omaha, NE; 20 grandchildren; 35 great-grandchildren; his sisters: Ann Rath of Carroll, Lucille Jackley of Sun City Center, FL, and Freda Barron of Niles, MI; his brother: John (Marjorie) Gehling of Atlantic; his in-laws: Donna Gehling of Carroll, Irma Gehling of Carroll, Rufus Boes of Carroll, Darwin (Kay) Schulte of West Des Moines, and Pam (John) McCaslin of Omaha, NE; as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives.

Frank was preceded in death by his parents; his son, Dr. Gerald Gehling; his son-in-law, Dale Schaefer; his grandson, Nicholas Gehling; his great-granddaughter, Samantha Gehling; his sisters: Marie Von Eschen and Helen Gray; and his brothers: Leo, Leonard, and Vincent Gehling.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Im so sorry to hear about Frankie's passing. My love and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time! George & I enjoyed a very close friendship with Frank & Jean when we were first married, we played cards together & our son Don was born on the same day as Jerry at St Anthony Hospital. Even though we moved to Mn our friendship remained strong! He was so sweet & always had a big smile on his face! He will be truly missed! Love to you all! Lillian Gehling Grand Meadow,Mn

Lillian Gehling – November 03 2013 at 8:43 PM

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Im so sorry to hear about Frankie's passing. My love and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time! George & I enjoyed a very close friendship with Frank & Jean when we were first married, we played cards together & our son Don was born on the same day as Jerry at St Anthony Hospital. Even though we moved to Mn our friendship remained strong! He was so sweet & always had a big smile on his face! He will be truly missed! Love to you all! Lillian Gehling Grand Meadow,Mn

Lillian Gehling – November 03 2013 at 8:43 PM

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Our sympathies to the Gehling family. I was a classmate of Gerry's and Sharon used to work for my folks at the Dairy Sweet in Carroll. I spent a few afternoons at the Gehlng farm when in grade school, riding horses and having a great time. Frank was a kind man, a gentleman,and always seemed to have a smile on his face. May our God hold him in the palm of His hand. Jim Neuerburg Overland Park, KS

Jim Neuerburg – November 04 2013 at 9:54 PM

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As a member of Franks family I am.Sharons daughter one of Franks granddaughters. I thankyou all for your kind words of sympathy and love. He did impact many lives and I'm so glad so many were able to be a part of his life. I personally also want to say a huge thank you for the wonderful services and help from Sharp funeral home.and the gentleman who were part of our evenings. Thank you all

Casey Coulter – November 07 2013 at 1:51 PM

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Lit a candle in memory of Frank J. Gehling

Mary Seil – November 04 2013 at 11:14 AM

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