Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Elayne Stalzer, age 88, of Carroll, Iowa, died unexpectedly on Thursday, December 3, 2009, at her residence. Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 A.M., Monday, December 7, 2009, at Holy Spirit Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Father Timothy Johnson. The casket will be taken to the church at 8:30 A.M. Monday to lie in state until the time of the funeral mass. Lector will be Monica Kruse. Gift Bearers will be Mrs. Stalzer’s children, Jim Busche, Georgia Bizal, Jane Heithoff, and Joyce Chastain. Mass Servers will be Jessica and Danielle Schultes. Eucharistic Ministers will be Leon and Florence Oswald. The Carroll Catholic Daughters of America will form an honor guard for the funeral mass. Casket Bearers will be Andrea Chastain, Danielle Chastain, Stephanie Frome, Boyd Frome, Dan Heithoff, Tom Heithoff, and Mark Montgomery. Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 3:30 P.M. Sunday. A rosary will be prayed at 4 P.M. Sunday by the Carroll Catholic Daughters of America. There will be a Christian wake service at 7 P.M. Sunday by Holy Spirit Parish. Memorials may be left at the funeral home or church for Holy Spirit Parish or the Kuemper Catholic Schools Foundation. Mrs. Stalzer was born on September 30, 1921, at Ute, Iowa, the daughter of Lewis E. and Carrie (Welte) Montgomery. At the age of 6 her family moved to Carroll where she attended Saint Peter and Paul School and graduated from St. Angela Academy. Following high school Elayne worked as a bookkeeper for the Dolezal Insurance Agency in Carroll. On October 25, 1949, she was married to George J. Busche at Saint Peter and Paul Church. Mr. Busche died in May 1983. On May 25, 1984, she was married to Anthony Stalzer at Holy Spirit Church. Elayne was a homemaker and in later years worked as a bookkeeper for Holy Spirit School. She was a member of Holy Spirit Parish, Parish Ladies Guild, Adult Choir, and Funeral Choir. She was also a member of the Catholic Daughters of America serving as Treasurer, and was a 4-H Leader for forty years. Elayne enjoyed her family, her cats, sewing, music, cooking, and her rose bushes and flowers. Survivors include her son, Jim Busche and his wife Madhu Grover of Hong Kong, China; her daughters, Georgia Bizal of St. Joseph, Missouri, Jane Heithoff and her husband Myron of Carroll, and Joyce Chastain and her husband Dr. C.B. of Columbia, Missouri; grandchildren, Andrea Chastain, Danielle Chastain, Stephanie Frome and her husband Boyd, Dan Heithoff, Tom Heithoff, and Ashna Shah; brothers, Ed Montgomery of Carroll, and Dr. Louis Montgomery and his wife Mary of Waterloo; sisters-in-law, Jeanette Montgomery of Aberdeen, South Dakota, Helen Quinn of Carroll, and Maxine Busche of Carroll; a brother-in-law, Del Farrell of Carroll; and many nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her husband, George J. Busche; her parents; a sister, Mildred Howard; and brothers, Del Montgomery and Everett Montgomery.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Jane, Joyce, Georgia and Jim - Aunt Elayne was a tremendous lady to all of us. We - Jenn, Joseph, Matt and I - always looked forward to seeing her when we came to Carroll to visit Nana and Grandpa. It won't be the same without her. You're in our thoughts and prayers.

Megan Inman – December 07 2009 at 12:24 PM

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I extent my sincere sympathy to all of Elaine's family. Elayne and I were associated because of our membership in the Catholic Daughters of America. Elayne's contribution throughout the years as an officer and member has been a valuable asset to Court St. Rose of Lime #6. Because I reside in Texas during the winter, I will be unable to participate in any of the services, however I will be with the Court in spirit and prayer. In Unity and Charity, Kaye Stock, District Deputy

Kaye Stock – December 05 2009 at 9:44 PM

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When I heard the news that we lost our Auntie (E)Layne I felt that I lost a huge part of my childhood. I have so many great memories of spending time with her, Uncle George, and my Busche cousins. She will definitely be missed! I am praying for all of you!

Marge Von Bon – December 04 2009 at 11:47 AM

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I don't know where to start. My Auntie Layne has been there my whole life.She shared every birthday and Christmas when we were growing up. She stood on the front porch with Mom after Daddy died and waved us on our way. She stood on the front porch and cried with us when we had to sell the house. She visited Mom every week when she was at the Health Center. Last night all I could think about was that this couldn't have happened, because she has to open the doors on her Advent Calendar. I hope everyone is so fortunate that they were gifted with an Auntie Layne.

Carole Inman – December 04 2009 at 11:35 AM

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Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We will really miss our "Auntie Elayne". We love you all. Gloria Brown

Gloria Brown – December 04 2009 at 10:48 AM

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