Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Elaine Mackey, 87 of Carroll, and formerly of Fonda, died Friday, April 19, 2024, at Addington Place of Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Thursday, April 25, 2024, at Our Lady of Good Counsel Catholic Church in Fonda. The Celebrant will be Fr. Paul Nguyen assisted by Deacon Eldon Sullivan. Music will be by Randy Schmitt and Sally Stumpf. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Evan Mackey. Gift Bearers will be Duane and Betty Kirsch. Casket Bearers will be Steve Elzenga, Scott Elzenga, Rick Elzenga, Bill Mackey, Dennis Wadle, and Dean Lange. Burial will be in Mt. Zion Cemetery in Fonda.

Visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. on Thursday at the church.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Elaines’ family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Elaine Mackey was born April 5, 1937, in Rock Rapids, Iowa to John and Hazel (Pals) Elzenga. She attended rural country grade school and graduated in 1955 from Rock Rapids High School. Elaine attended Westmar College and received her two-year teaching certificate. She later attended Buena Vista College receiving a bachelor’s degree in teaching. Elaine began her teaching career in Aurelia, and then later worked in Sheldon and Storm Lake school districts.

Elaine was united in marriage to Gene Mackey at St. Columbkille Catholic Church in Varina on December 29, 1962. The couple established their home in the Varina area and later moved to the Fonda area where Gene farmed, and Elaine worked as a teacher for nearly thirty years in the Newell school district. In 2011, the couple moved to Fort Dodge and in 2019 Elaine moved to Addington Place in Carroll where she resided until her passing.

Elaine enjoyed gardening, tending to her flowers and baking. Elaine loved holidays and decorated for every occasion and season and enjoyed going to garage sales searching for decorations. Elaine and Gene enjoyed traveling with their camper and also enjoyed going on bus tours. Elaine liked watching sports and cheering on the Hawkeyes and Chiefs. Family was very important to Elaine, and she treasured the time together with her family and grandchildren.

Elaine had deep devotion to her faith and was a long-time member of St. Columbkille, Varina; Our Lady of Good Counsel, Fonda; and Holy Trinity, Fort Dodge; she was also a member of Catholic Daughters of America.

Elaine is survived by her son, Brian Mackey and his wife Tracy of Omaha, Nebraska, grandchildren Braden & Evan Mackey. Her brother Roger & wife Chris Elzenga of Bismarck, North Dakota, sister-in law Judy Nissen of Sioux Falls, South Dakota, and sister- in-law Shirley Mackey of Laurens, Iowa; numerous nieces, nephews, cousins and extended family and friends.

Elaine was preceded in death by her husband Gene in 2015, her parents John and Hazel Elzenga, and brother Gordon Elzenga.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Our thoughts and prayers to Brian and Tracy and Elaine’s family. Remember fondly our time teaching with Elaine as well as her generous hosting of our engagement shower over 40 years ago. A truly generous and kind lady. God’s Peace.

Randy and Marilyn Schmitt – April 24 2024 at 1:30 PM

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Our condolences to the Mackey family. Merle & Jean Boerner

Merle & Jean Boerner – April 25 2024 at 9:46 AM

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The Wolf Family purchased the Emerald Garden Basket for the family of Elaine Mackey.

The Wolf Family – April 22 2024 at 10:43 AM

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Martha L. purchased the Florist Choice Bouquet for the family of Elaine Mackey.

Martha L. – April 23 2024 at 3:41 PM

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FinOps & Treasury Team - Mutual of Omaha purchased the Sweet Tenderness for the family of Elaine Mackey.

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