Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Ed Vanderheiden, 61 of Carroll, died Thursday, May 2, 2024 at his home in Carroll after a brief illness.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, May 7, 2024 at Holy Spirit Church-St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm. Music will be by Kathy Halbur and Sherry Loughran. Lectors for the Funeral Mass will be Ed’s nieces, Kaitlin Geake and Jessica Ruse. Gift Bearers will be Ed’s nephews, Aaron Miller, Dawson Miller, and Dillon Walsh. Eucharistic Minister will be Joan Shymanski. Casket Bearers will be Bret Leymasters, Collin Hackett, Cameron Hackett, Mike McGowan, Jason Lohrmann, Mike Badding, and Marty Vanderheiden. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll. Following the committal service, the casket bearers will hit a 21-golf ball salute in memory of their dear friend Ed.

Visitation will be from 5-7 p.m. Monday at Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. There will be no public visitation on Tuesday at the church.

Memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Ed’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Edward Warren Vanderheiden was born on January 1, 1963, the sixth of eight children. He attended Holy Spirit grade school and graduated from Carroll High School in 1981.

Ed lived in Carroll his entire life. He worked at a number of businesses in the area and became proficient at a variety of skills, including, but not limited to bartending, painting, assembly line work, shipping, and most recently, machine embroidery at Game One, a job he took pride in doing right. He was a devoted son to his mother, Ruth, helping her around her house and yard until her death in 2014.

Ed enjoyed hunting, fishing, walking his faithful canine companion Kobe Cinnamon-Slicker, being around all his buddies, and most of all, Ed loved golf. He played in every tourney he could and golfed on several courses around the country, including in Hawaii. He was proud to claim a hole in one in 2014 at the Carroll Country Club, as well one on the 7th hole on the Municipal Golf Course in 2016, and one on the 16th hole at the Muni in 2017. It was a big bar tab, but worth every dime. His presence on the course will be missed by his golfing buddies.

Ed is survived by his siblings Ann (Patrick) McAlister of Bayard, Beverly (Gordon) Miller of Storm Lake, Cynthia (Darren) Hudson of Wittman, Arizona, Duane (Kathy Spindler) Vanderheiden of Omaha, and Gary (Julie) Vanderheiden of Caldas da Rainha, Portugal, brother-in-law Jim Steinkamp of Carroll, fourteen nieces and nephews, twenty-five great nieces and nephews, numerous cousins, aunts Marie Sextro and Dora Sextro, uncles Warren Meier, Richard Vanderheiden, Michael (Marlene) Vanderheiden, and Patrick Vanderheiden, and many friends.

Ed was preceded in death by his mother, Ruth Vanderheiden, brother Tom Vanderheiden, sister, Faith Steinkamp, a niece and nephew in infancy, aunts and uncles Edna Sextro, Helen and Joe Lampe, Leo Sextro, Ed Sextro, Herb and Janet Sextro, Norbert Sextro, Leonard and Laurie Sextro, Dorothy and Leon Masching, Maxine Meier, Don and Claudine Vanderheiden, Beth Vanderheiden, Dorothy Vanderheiden, Karen Vanderheiden, Mary Vanderheiden, and Theresa Buffington.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Rest peacefully old friend, you will be remembered and treasured well

Jim Kruse – May 03 2024 at 9:59 AM

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Great times playing in the neighborhood. Rip Ed

Dan Gronstal – May 03 2024 at 2:54 PM

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Ed bartend on weekend with Jim at Denny’s they might have drank more than they sold. Such fun times. Ed helped us out so many times.He and Faith are forever in our hearts

joan – May 04 2024 at 8:50 AM

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My deepest condolences to families! A fine guy!

Denny O’Grady – May 04 2024 at 12:00 PM

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We give our condolences to the Vanderheiden family. Ed was a fine gentleman. Played hoops with him down at the Rec many times. He liked to share the ball. May he rest in peace and God bless him. He and Faith will always be in our thoughts and prayers.

Maggie and Paul Simons – May 04 2024 at 6:04 PM

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