Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Dorothy Heisterkamp, 93 of Breda, died Wednesday, October 9, 2024 at Garden View Assisted Living in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Monday, October 14, 2024 at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. The Celebrant will be Fr. Terry Roder. Mass Servers will be Morgan and Owen Masching. Music will be by Marilyn Hundling and the St. Bernard’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Sue Benni. Gift Bearers will be Courtney Huber, Ashley Perrotta, and Blair Heisterkamp. Eucharistic Minister will be Karen Heisterkamp. Casket Bearers will be Adam Reiling, Andrew Reiling, Dr. Nathan Boes, Michael Heisterkamp, Bennett Heisterkamp, Parker Heisterkamp, and Alex Heisterkamp. Burial will be in St. Bernard’s Cemetery in Breda.

A visitation will be held from 3-5 p.m. on Sunday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. The Calhoun County Nursing Honor Guard will honor Dorothy at 5 p.m. Additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. on Monday at St. Bernard’s Church prior to the Funeral Mass.

Memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation. Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Dorothy’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born July 6, 1931, in Early, Iowa, Dorothy was the daughter of John and Helena (Sampers) Drey. She was the fourth child of eight. She attended elementary school at Sacred Heart in Early, Iowa and graduated high school from St. Angela’s Academy in 1948. In 1950, Dorothy graduated from St. Anthony School of Nursing on June 28, 1955. She married the love of her life, Robert Heisterkamp. To this union, four children were welcomed.

Dorothy started her nursing career at St. Anthony’s in the operating room. When Stewart Memorial Community Hospital opened in 1962 in Lake City, Iowa, Dorothy was asked to take charge of the operating room. She took over the position and continued as the OR supervisor until her retirement at the age of 84.
She lived in Breda her entire married life. She was a member of St. Bernard’s parish and women’s guild and sang in the adult choir. She and Bob moved to Garden View Assisted Living in January 2021, where she resided until her death.

Dorothy loved playing cards and “500” was her game. She played the piano and trumpet and loved to collect antiques. Baking was her hobby and as everyone knows her lemon meringue pies were a hit with everyone.

Dorothy is survived by her husband, Robert, children, Delynn (Bryan) Boes, Diane (Dennis) Reiling, Gary (Karen) Heisterkamp, and Jon (Laura) Heisterkamp. Sisters: Joan and Margaret Drey, brother, Tom (Dori) Drey, sisters-in-law, Elaine Drey and Lucy Brooks. Grandchildren: Nathan (Rachel) Boes, Courtney (Bobby) Huber, Adam (Tara) Reiling, Ashley (Brendon) Perrotta, Andew Reiling, Michael Heisterkamp, Alex (D’Laine) Heisterkamp, Blair, Bennett and Parker Heisterkamp. Great-Grandchildren: Noah, Bowen and Arabella Boes, Anna Kate, Jack and Lucy Huber, Miller Heisterkamp.

She was preceded in death by her parents, in-laws Anton and Lillian Heisterkamp, brothers, Joe, Pete, Ken and John. Sister-in-laws: Marian Drey, Chris Drey, Kay Drey, Marlys Schulte and brothers-in-law: Eldon Heisterkamp and Herb Schulte.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Landra C. planted a Memorial Tree in honor of Dorothy Heisterkamp.

Landra C. – October 11 2024 at 7:37 PM

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Bob, DeLynn, Diane, Gary, Jon and families, so sorry to hear of the loss of aunt Dorothy. She was always so kind. Our deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to all of you. May the Lord give you strength and comfort at this difficult time.

Marilyn Peters – October 13 2024 at 9:29 AM

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Uncle Bob & my dear cousins, There are so many redeeming qualities of your Mom, it's hard to encapsulate them. Funny, chatty & classy! I recall her story of going out in costume for Halloween 🎃 & @ some point in the evening, the husbands & wives would swap costumes. I will never forget her kindness toward our entire family. She was in the OR when our brother Bruce had surgery, she doted on our dad Kenny, Scott & Steve, & the rest of us who were in her presence. May you all find peace & rejoice in what a beautiful person she was.🌹

Anne K Drey – October 13 2024 at 12:43 PM

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Bob and family: We were so sorry to learn of Dorothy's passing. She was such an enthusiastic woman to be around. I loved the way she loved life and the people around her. Her bright light will continue to shine in the hearts of her friends and family who she loved so much. Our thoughts/prayers are with you. Wes/CJ Niles

Wes & CJ Niles – October 13 2024 at 7:31 PM

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The most beautiful soul ❤️

Renee Greve – October 14 2024 at 10:29 AM

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