Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Doreen Polking, 90, of Breda, died Wednesday, February 26, 2014, at SunnyBrook Assisted Living in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be held at 10:30 a.m. Saturday, March 1, 2014, at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. The celebrant will be Fr. Gary Snyder. Music will be by Marilyn Hundling and the St. Bernard Choir. Lectors will be Krista Christensen, Jill Tiefenthaler, and Jennifer Maystadt. Gift Bearers will be Doreen’s great-grandchildren. Eucharistic minister will be Doreen’s daughter, Sandy Gannon. Honorary casketbearers will be Gina Tiefenthaler, Jill Tiefenthaler, Jennifer Maystadt, Jon Tiefenthaler, Tara Meier, Sonya Frickenstein, Krista Christensen, Laura Jackovin, Rachel Gannon, and Jessica Gannon. Casketbearers will be Bryce Christensen, Tom Jackovin, Nolan Semrau, Aaron Leib, Kevin Rask, and Tom Maystadt. Burial will be in the parish cemetery.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Breda after 4:30 p.m. on Friday where there will be a Rosary at 5 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service at 6:30 p.m.

Memorials may be left at the funeral home or church to be directed to the family for beautification of the Breda Park.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Breda, and online condolences may be left for the family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Born on August 24, 1923, Doreen Louise was the daughter of William and Mary (Heisterkamp) Poen. She attended St. Bernard School in Breda. On November 24, 1942, Doreen was united in marriage to Raymond Polking at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. She was a devoted homemaker, wife, mother, and grandmother. In her later years Doreen worked at Twilight Acres Nursing Home where she was a member of the dietary staff. Doreen lived and raised her family by a quote from Mother Teresa, “A joyful heart is the normal result of a heartwarming love.” Doreen represented this in her love to her children and grandchildren. She never gave up and always forgave, and gave second, third, and fourth chances. She always dealt many a pass. Doreen enjoyed playing cards-belonging to thirteen card clubs, sports, especially Hawkeye, Cyclone, and Creighton athletics. She was a member of the National Order of Women Foresters, St. Bernard’s Ladies Guild, and St. Bernard’s Parish.

Left to celebrate Doreen’s life are her children: Marlene (Alan) Tiefenthaler of Breda, Tom (Karen) Polking of West Des Moines, and Sandy (Dennis) Gannon of Iowa City. Grandchildren: Gina Tiefenthaler, Jill Tiefenthaler (Kevin Rask), Jennifer (Tom) Maystadt, Jon (Alyssa) Tiefenthaler, Tara (Glen) Meier, Sonya (Matt) Frickenstein, Krista (Bryce) Christensen, Laura (Tom) Jackovin, Rachel Gannon (Nolan Semrau), and Jessica Gannon (Aaron Leib); 13 great-grandchildren; two sisters: Willa Mae Pick of Carroll and Verma Jean (Ken) Pick of Kiron.

She was preceded in death by her parents and her husband Ray in 2001.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Breda, Iowa

102 S 5th St, Breda, IA, 51436

712-673-2828

[email protected]

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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To the entire Polking family, I will always remember your Mother's great smile and laugh. It was so much fun to take her along to some of my son Tommy's basketball games. She so enjoyed going to them and of course we had to stop to eat supper first! Just saw your Mom this past week, when she was in Breda with a group of ladies for lunch. She is a beautiful angel that God has taken to be with Him. Cherish your memories as I will mine of your Mom. Diane Lucas

Diane Lucas – February 26 2014 at 4:38 PM

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We join the family and friends of Doreen Polking in saying "Farewell" to a beautiful life. Although hearts are heavy, beloved and cherished memories will bring comfort and peace to Doreen's loved ones. (The attached photo is from Rachel and Nolan's September 2008 wedding. Doreen is seated with Nolan's grandmother, Bernice Semrau.) With our sympathy, Norm, Elaine, and Alan Semrau

Norm Semrau – February 27 2014 at 2:41 PM

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Our sympathy to the Polking family, Marlene I was so surprised to read of your mother's death in tonight's Carroll paper. She was such a nice lady and I am glad that I got to know her when you would bring her into the office for an appointment. Again our sympathy. . . Sincerely, Pat and Tom Louis

Pat and Tom Louis – February 28 2014 at 7:58 PM

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Denny, Sandy, Rachel, an Jessica - I have so many wonderful childhood memories with Grandma Doreen!! She is one very special lady that I was blessed to know. She was like a second Grandma to the Gaffey kids. Such a wonderful lady. She will be missed. You all are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time! With love, Matt, Heather, and Lauren Walker

Matt and Heather Walker – March 01 2014 at 5:15 AM

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Hi, We are in Florida and just heard about Doreen. She was a special lady, always a smile, and always fun. She was like a sister to Maxine. We know you have many special memories to help you thru this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Bob & Janice Huisenga

Bob & Janice Huisenga – March 14 2014 at 2:35 PM

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