Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Darlene Wiederin, 86 of Carroll, died Tuesday, February 17, 2026 at her residence in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Monday, February 23, 2026 at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Mt. Carmel. The Celebrant will be Fr. Terry Roder. Music will be by Nancy Lemker and Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Choir. Lectors for the Funeral Mass will be Zachary Hagedorn and Megan Schreck. Gift Bearers will be Jennifer Snyder, Sarah Diver, and Claire Barfield. Eucharistic Minister will be Julie Wiederin. Honorary Casket Bearers will be Jim Daley, Brian Diver, and Gary Kirke. Casket Bearers will be Alex Wiederin, Zachary Hagedorn, Jacob Hagedorn, Nick Diver, Ryan Diver, Trey Snyder, Brian Schreck, and Cortez Barfield. Burial will be in Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Cemetery.

A visitation will be held from 2-4 p.m. on Sunday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. Additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. on Monday at the church. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Darlene’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Darlene Veronica was born on August 25, 1939 in Pontiac, Michigan, the daughter of John and Cleora Maun. At the age of 5, she moved to Auburn, Iowa to live with her aunt and uncle, Margaret and Ralph Rauch where she graduated from Auburn Community School. On October 25, 1958, Darlene was united in marriage to Dennis Wiederin.

Darlene was a gifted seamstress. She created beautiful window treatments, and clothes for her children, grandchildren, friends and customers. She also spent her time quilting, which gave her great joy. Everyone loved her baking talent; her specialty was her coffee cakes and chocolate chip cookies. She looked forward to the holidays as this is when she made her favorite Christmas candy. All her kids and grandkids would look forward to receiving her Christmas candy each year. She loved to volunteer and visit with her friends.

Darlene devoted her life to her family. She was always present – always listening, always loving. Her love knew no limit. She put her family first at all times and nothing made her happier. She looked forward to every visit with her children and grandchildren. Spending time with dad and them is what she cherished. She loved big, gave her love freely and it was a kind of love that stays with you forever. We will miss her dearly and will always carry her love with us.

Darlene is survived by her husband Dennis of Carroll; her children: Christine (Jim) Daley of Council Bluffs, Michael (Julie) Wiederin of Carroll, Debra (Brian) Diver of Glen Ellyn, Illinois, and Sue (Gary) Kirke of West Des Moines; her grandchildren: Jenny (Trey) Snyder, Alex (Meg) Wiederin, Megan (Brian) Schreck, Sarah Diver, Nick (Grace) Diver, Ryan Diver, Zachary (Mandy) Hagedorn, Jacob (Peyton) Hagedorn, and Claire (Cortez) Barfield; her great-grandchildren: Archer Snyder, Oakley Snyder, Banks Wiederin, Wells Wiederin, Wrenley Schreck, Jaxson Hagedorn, Hudson Hagedorn, Thea Barfield, and Tatum Barfield; her sister, Marlene (Mike) Vanderheiden; her brother, David Maun; her sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law: Patty Smith, Eugene (Marcia) Wiederin, Eileen (Maurice) Lenz, Mark (Cindy) Wiederin, Joan (Lanny) Goetzinger, and Pat (Lynne) Wiederin; as well as many nieces, nephews, other extended relatives and many friends.

Darlene was preceded in death by her parents, John Maun and his wife Ann Maun and Cleora Gries and her husband Ed Gries; her parents-in-law, Carl and Rosina Wiederin; her sister, Maxine (Richard) Bauer; her brothers, Gerald Smith and Kirk Rauch; and her aunt and uncle, Margaret and Ralph Rauch.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Arnold . planted a Memorial Tree in honor of Darlene Wiederin.

Arnold . – February 19 2026 at 6:02 PM

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A Memorial Tree was planted in honor of Darlene Wiederin.

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Basket Full of Wishes was purchased for the family of Darlene Wiederin.

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