Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Darlene Leiting, 89 of Arcadia, died Friday, August 20, 2021, at Regency Park Nursing Home in Carroll.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be Celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Tuesday, August 24, 2021, at St. John’s Catholic Church in Arcadia. The Celebrant will be Fr. Merlin Schrad. Concelebrant will be Fr. Richard Remmes. Music will be by Sharon Bierl and the parish choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Peg Scheidt. Gift Bearers and Honorary Casket Bearers will be Emma, Mollie, and Madison Leiting. Eucharistic Minister will be Pat Vogl. Casket Bearers will be Steve Wonderlin, Matt Wonderlin, Nick Wonderlin, Zach Wonderlin, Duane Hanrahan, and Lyle Hanrahan. The Arcadia American Legion Auxiliary will form an honor guard for the Funeral Mass. Burial will be in St. John’s Cemetery in Arcadia.
Visitation will begin with a rosary at 5 p.m. by the Christian Mothers and continue until 7 p.m. on Monday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Darlene’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.
Darlene was born on August 10, 1932, at Dedham, Iowa, the daughter of Frank and Emma (Seidl) Wiskus. She grew up on the family farm near Dedham and attended St. Joseph School. Her family later moved to Carroll where she graduated from St. Angela’s Academy in 1950. On June 1, 1957, Darlene was united in marriage to Gene Leiting. The couple farmed southwest of Arcadia until Gene’s passing in 1986. Darlene continued to live on the farm until 1998 when she moved to Arcadia.
She was a lifelong parishioner at St. John’s Parish, Parish Ladies Guild, and a member of the Arcadia American Legion Auxiliary since 2005. Darlene was also past president of Christian Mothers, served on the parish council, and was organist for the church and choir since 1984 which she thoroughly loved and enjoyed. She also enjoyed listening to the radio and CDS, going to the casino, and playing euchre and rummikub with friends.
Survivors include her daughter Jane Wonderlin and husband Doug of Ankeny, her son Neil Leiting and wife Lisa of Westside; her grandsons: Steve (Kristen) Wonderlin, Matt (Ashley) Wonderlin, and Nick (Jordan) Wonderlin; her granddaughters: Emma Leiting, Mollie Leiting, and Madison Leiting; her great-grandsons: Zachary, Blake, Owen, Brantley, Gable Wonderlin; great-granddaughters: Gracyn and Lilly Wonderlin, and one on the way; as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives.
Darlene was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Gene in 1986; her brothers: Alfred, Clarence and Louis in infancy; and her sisters: Florence Balk, Tillie Wiskus, Dorothy Schreck, Sr. Christille Wiskus FSPA, Leonilla Wiskus and Geneva Dentlinger; her brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law: Clem Balk, John Schreck, Wilbert Dentlinger, Eileen Wiskus, Ella Wiskus, Gloria Wiskus, and Leo and Marian Hanrahan.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Our deepest sympathy to the Leiting family. Darlene was such a gentle soul and always took time to visit with us when we would be back home. May she rest in peace. Doreen and Ken Berg

Doreen and Ken Berg – August 22 2021 at 4:52 PM

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So sorry for your loss. Darlene was such a great organist for the St. John's Choir and such a great part of our neighborhood. So caring and loving. Loras and Marlene Hoffmann

Marlene – August 22 2021 at 9:14 PM

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My sympathy to the family of Darlene Leiting. The residents at Orchard View have enjoyed her music so often, especially during the pandemic. Darlene was a beautiful lady and a friend to all of us, from our first meeting. Heaven is surely filled with beautiful music now. Levan Eich

Levan Eich – August 23 2021 at 3:22 PM

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My deepest sympathy to the children and extended family of Darlene! She was such a lovely Soul, a dedicated Catholic, played the most beautiful organ music at St. John's and was a good 'up and around' the street neighbor in Arcadia back in the day. I got to converse many times with Darlene in the past few months since my mom, Pat, was at Regency Park, too. Always the biggest wave and wanted to know all about my trip from KC and what I was helping Mom with now. Ha. I was thrilled with how talkative she was and was I happy that she celebrated her birthday earlier this month! Darlene will be missed by so many there at Regency, she was one of the "Girl Gang" that made Mom feel so welcome (she saved her a seat at the table every day), and I am so thankful for her smile and light-hearted attitude. May she be fluttering around free and fancy with all those family members who have gone before her! She was ready for a party :) Blessings and Condolences, Molly Hinners Bierl and Family

Molly Hinners Bierl – August 23 2021 at 8:22 PM

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I only knew Darlene for a short time, after she moved to Orchard View. She was a lovely lady, and I so enjoyed her musical talent! She played for us often! My condolences to the family. Dorothy Zierke

Dorothy Zierke – August 24 2021 at 11:24 AM

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