Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Carol (Heithoff) Meiners, 78, of Dedham, died Thursday, July 16, 2020 at her home surrounded by family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Tuesday, July 21, 2020 at St. Joseph’s Parish in Dedham. Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm assisted by Deacon Louie Meiners. The organ will be played by a good friend, Cindy Bauer, and songs by a grandson Seth Pierce. Lector for the funeral mass will be brother, Ken Heithoff, and sister-in-law, Lori Devine. Casket Bearers will be grandchildren: Brandon Meiners, Samantha Bedford, Tyler Hunke, Ryan Bedford, Ashley Meiners, Kristin Hunke, Lindsey Golwitzer and Kaylie Golwitzer. Burial will be in St. Joseph Cemetery, Dedham. Those who choose to attend the funeral mass are required to wear a face covering. There will be no public visitation at the church prior to the mass.

Visitation will be held from 4-7 p.m. on Monday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. Those in attendance are asked to abide by COVID 19 social distancing guidelines, and masks are recommended.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church to establish a nursing education scholarship in Carol’s name. If mailing a memorial please mail to Family of Carol Meiners, c/o Sharp Funeral Home, 226 W. 8th St. Carroll, IA 51401.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Carol’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Carol, the daughter of Marcellus & Otillia (Weitl) Heithoff, was born on April 18, 1942 in Carroll, Iowa. She grew up in Templeton, Iowa; and Verndale, Minn., and attended St. Gabriel’s Hospital School of Nursing in Little Falls, Minn. Carol began her nursing career at St. Joseph’s Hospital in St. Paul, Minn.

On January 4, 1964, Carol was united in marriage to Harold Meiners at St. Frederick’s Catholic Church in Verndale. The couple lived a short time in Maplewood, Minn., and then raised their nine children in the Dedham area, eventually settling on the family farm. After moving to Iowa, Carol worked at St. Anthony’s Hospital in Carroll, private nursing care and retired from Thomas Rest Haven Nursing Home in Coon Rapids in 2004.

Carol was involved in many community activities including the Dedham St. Joseph’s Church Ladies Guild, St. Joseph’s choir, Dedham Auxiliary, Viola Homemakers Club, and the Red Hatters. In retirement, Harold and Carol loved to travel – visiting all continents except Antarctica, spending their winter months in Florida or Arizona and loving their time in Branson, MO. with their many friends and family.

After her diagnosis of Glioblastoma Multiforme brain cancer, and initial treatment at Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minn., Carol was able to help advance the study of immuno-therapy treatment through her participation in the exclusive polio vaccine clinical trial with Duke University’s Preston Robert Tisch Brain Tumor Center in Durham, N.C. It was important for her to continue to contribute through this ongoing research to help improve the future of those impacted by the disease.

Left to celebrate her life is her beloved husband, Harold Meiners, her children: Lisa Meiners (Joe Stumph), Vadnais Heights, Minn.; Gary Meiners, Sioux Falls, S.D.; Brenda (Jarret) Golwitzer, West Des Moines, Iowa; Kim (Fred) Campbell, Carroll, Iowa; Deb (Randy) Russell, Ogden, Iowa; Mike (Laura) Meiners, Rochester, Minn.; Tim (Nicole) Meiners, Denver, Colo.; Tami (Brian) Larson, Ankeny, Iowa; Chris (Krissy) Meiners, Denver, Colo.
Grandchildren: Brandon Meiners; Ashley Meiners (Seth Pierce); Lindsey and Kaylie Golwitzer; Samantha and Ryan Bedford; Kaitlyn and Kyle Campbell; Tyler and Kristin Hunke; Alex, Emma and Norah Meiners; Jaxon and Maddox Meiners; Grace and Abigail Larson.

Brother, Ken (Karen) Heithoff, Naples, Fla.; Sister Connie Heithoff (Rae), Grand Marais, Minn.

Brothers-in-law: Bob Meiners (Mary), Hampshire, Ill.; Vern (Jane) Meiners, Carroll, Iowa; Ron (Jeanine) Meiners; Carroll, Iowa; Ray (Gail) Meiners, Papillion, Neb.
Sisters-in-law: Lori Devine, Watertown, S.D.; Rosie (Pat) Lenz, Omaha, Neb.; Mary (Gary) Tripp, Crescent, Iowa as well as many nieces, nephews and other extended relatives.

Carol was preceded in death by her parents, Marcellus & Otillia Heithoff; infant brother, John; sister-in-law, Nancy Meiners; brother-in-law, John Devine; in-laws, Henry & Agnella Meiners.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Sending sympathy to Carol's family. Have many good memories of Carol in the Class of 1960 in Verndale. Carol was the Homecoming Queen in 1960. Barbara Anderson Larson - Class of 1960

barbara larson – July 19 2020 at 3:16 PM

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Full Of Love Bouquet was purchased for the family of Carol Meiners.

Comment #31370512 – July 20 2020 at 2:12 PM

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Lovely One Spathiphyllum Plant was purchased for the family of Carol Meiners.

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Simply Elegant Spathiphyllum was purchased for the family of Carol Meiners.

Comment #31368864 – July 20 2020 at 10:24 AM

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Harold & family. So sorry to hear about Carol passing. Our deepest sympathy. Thought & prayers with u during this difficult time. Harold we have great memories with Carol & u in Branson years back. Look forward mars to seeing u in Branson sometime again

Don & CarolMatzenbacher – July 21 2020 at 11:07 PM

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