Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Annette Oswald, age 91 of Carroll, and formerly of Harlan, passed away peacefully on October 7, 2021 at St. Anthony’s Regional Hospital in Carroll.

The family kindly requests that those in attendance wear a face covering.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Monday, October 11, 2021 at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott. Music will be by Jane Heithoff. Lectors will be Jenny Sloan, Jolene Vos, Heather Adler, Andrea Rau. Gift Bearers will be Lindsay Williams and Paige Williams. Eucharistic Minister will be Kim Vandendiessie. Casket Bearers will be Nic McCauley, Trevor McCauley, Mat McCauley, Ryan Oswald, Jared Aalbers, Eric Gross, Garrett Shirbroun. Burial will be at 2:30 p.m. in the Harlan Cemetery in Harlan.

Visitation will be held from 9:30 to 10:15 a.m. Monday at St. Lawrence Church.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Annette’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Annette, the oldest of 6 children of Ed and Annie (Kanne) Fleskes was born on April 3, 1930 at Carroll, Iowa. She married Robert Oswald on June 25, 1952. They were the first couple married in the current St. Lawrence Church Building.

Annette enjoyed traveling, gardening, baking and sewing. Faith and Family were very important to her. Annette served on the St. Michaels Parish Ladies Guild in Harlan, and St. John Paul – St. Lawrence Ladies Guild in Carroll.

Left to celebrate Annette’s life is her husband Bob of Carroll; children: Barb Aalbers (Dick) of Monroe, Steve Oswald of Omaha, NE, Craig (Lori) Oswald of Denver, CO, Lori MCCauley (Mike) of Adrian, MI, and Julie Shirbroun of Lidderdale; 12 grandchildren, 17 great-grandchildren. Her sisters: Vera (Duane) Sporrer of Carroll, Kay Heisterkamp of Ankeny, and Judy Adams (Tex) of Estherville; sisters-in-law: Marilyn Mellhollin (Steve) of Franklin, TN, Shirley Fleskes of Highlands Ranch, CO; as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended family and friends.

Annette was preceded in death by 2 children at birth: Scott and Joni; her parents, Ed and Annie Fleskes; her brother Jack Fleskes, and a sister Pat Sturm.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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What a blessing my dear Aunt Annette was to me. Like all of my aunts, she was like a second mother. God has truly gained another angel and I am proud to say she's my aunt. Thank you for helping make me who I am today. I love you from the bottom of my heart, Kim

Kim Vandendriessche – October 07 2021 at 7:24 PM

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I was a neighbor to Annette when she and Bob lived in Harlan. She was truly the best neighbor ever and we loved all the baked goodies that she brought over for us. We always enjoyed her Xmas letters and birthday card letters. We were soo sad to read about her passing in the Harlan Newspaper. Our sympathy and prayers to Bob and Annette’s family! Annette will be greatly missed!

Vicki and Lanny Petsche – October 13 2021 at 12:42 PM

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Annette, our sweet, witty, intelligent Aunt. I’m thinking of you as our RAGBRAI navigator and all those times we had. I’m thinking about us sitting around your kitchen table having wine. I’m thinking about your daily commitment to church and prayer. I’m thinking of our trip out to Denver with mom, sisters, Kim and the memories that were made. I know Jesus is happy you are home. I will expect your guidance in my life. With love and sympathy to Bob and your kids!

Terri Heisterkamp – October 09 2021 at 3:23 PM

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Annette, our sweet, witty, intelligent Aunt. I’m thinking of you as our RAGBRAI navigator and all those times we had. I’m thinking about us sitting around your kitchen table having wine. I’m thinking about your daily commitment to church and prayer. I’m thinking of our trip out to Denver with mom, sisters, Kim and the memories that were made. I know Jesus is happy you are home. I will expect your guidance in my life. With love and sympathy to Bob and your kids!

Terri Heisterkamp – October 07 2021 at 8:34 PM

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Medium Dish Garden was purchased for the family of Annette Oswald.

Comment #35432369 – October 08 2021 at 2:25 PM

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