Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Allan Jacob Kuker died in his home on August 22, 2020 in Denison, IA. He was 81 years old.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Thursday, August 27, 2020 at Holy Spirit Church- St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Kevin Richter. Music will be by Jane Heithoff. Lectors will be Allan’s grandchildren: Tony Kuker, Zack Stence, Teddy Kuker, and Gretchen Brodersen. Casket Bearers will be Allan’s sons: Jake Kuker, Mathias Kuker, D.J. Kuker, Kurt Kuker; a son-in-law: Nick Stence, and a grandson Gunner Cornelius. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll. Those in attendance at the funeral mass will be required to wear a face covering, and practice COVID-19 restrictions.

Visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. Wednesday, at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. Those in attendance will be asked to abide by all COVID-19 restrictions, and masks are recommended.

There will be no public visitation prior to the funeral mass on Thursday morning.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Allan’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Allan Kuker was born on July 5, 1939 in Carroll, IA, number 8 of Mathias & Eleanor Kuker’s children. Allan graduated from Kuemper Catholic High School in Carroll in 1957. After attending Creighton University in Omaha, NE, he worked in construction in Nebraska and Montana, and was involved in constructing the minute man missiles. Allan stayed in Montana for several years, which was the setting for many of his best stories. Later, he returned to Carroll County and began farming. In 1975 he married Margaret Wiegand in Amarillo, TX. The Kukers made their home in Carroll County and began their family of seven children while continuing to grow their farming business. Allan remained active in the Carroll area farming community until his death this week.

Allan loved spending time with his friends and family and had an avid interest in genealogy. He was a devoted father who enjoyed mentoring his children on farming and business, and later telling stories and sharing proverbial wisdom with his grandchildren, always with a twinkle of mischief in his eye. He was generous to a fault, and a welcoming host to any guest in his and Margaret’s home.

Mr. Kuker is survived by his wife Margaret, their daughter & son-in-law, Laura & Nick Stence of Denver, CO and their two children; their son & daughter-in-law Jake & Cara Kuker of Onawa, IA and their four children; their son Mathias Kuker of Denison, IA; their daughter Erika Brodersen of Lincoln, NE and her four children; their son & daughter-in-law DJ & Larissa Kuker of Dunlap, IA and their two children; their son Kurt Kuker of Lake Forest, CA; their daughter Heidi Kuker of Denver, CO; his brothers Morris Kuker and Robert Kuker, and his sisters, Jacque Rattenborg, Lavonne Wernimont, Jolene Happe, and Rilla Soetmilk.

He is preceded in death by his parents Mathias & Eleanor Kuker, his sister Lois Graham, and his brothers Evan, Marvin, Ronald, Richard, and Thomas.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Many, many good memories of Alan....”oungawa” and “tashita” , Kuker....... prayers to you and your family. John And Kristy Liechti

John and Kristy Liechti – August 23 2020 at 1:05 PM

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I have many but one I’ll never forget is when we got the tractor stuck . majorly stuck. I was young. While building my place in palmyra ne we got lots of things stuck. It must run in the family. He always had a laugh and was fun. He will be missed by many. Prayer for the whole extended family. May God bring all of you peace in these tough time. G w venteicher.

gw venteicher – August 23 2020 at 9:07 PM

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I am grateful I had the opportunity to meet Allan and his family when I went back to Iowa on a family history trip back in 2016. Allan and Margaret were kind enough to put this somewhat distant cousin up in their home and show me around the place my grandfather grew up. Allan was kind and generous, and my thoughts and deepest sympathies are with his beautiful family. I will always treasure the memories of that trip.

Michael Kuker – August 25 2020 at 12:43 PM

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We send our deepest sympathy to you all. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. JR & Shannon (Nees) Reising

Shannon Reising – August 27 2020 at 3:41 PM

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Lit a candle in memory of Allan Kuker

Larry/Lynne Brincks – August 23 2020 at 9:40 PM

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