Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Alex Toms, 58 of Carroll, died peacefully, Sunday, March 4, 2012 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll surrounded by his family.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Thursday at Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Johnson. Pianist for the mass will be Jake Gute with Katelyn Renze as soloist. Violinist will be Tyler Badding. Lectors will be Linda Kueper and Deanna Schoessler. Gift Bearers will be: Conrad Toms, Nolan Toms and Lindsay Toms Kastle. Eucharistic Ministers will be: Shirley Fasbender, Judy Spear, and Pat Bass. Honorary Casket Bearers will be the employees of Juergens Produce and Feed. Casket Bearers will be: Joe Kueper, Don Fasbender, Darrell Spear, Rick Keat, Gary Forke, Connie (Conrad) Schoessler, Brad Woodward, and Doug Bass. Private family graveside services will be held at a later date. Military Honors will be conducted at the church by the Carroll American Legion.
Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 3:30 p.m. Wednesday where there will be a rosary prayed at 4 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service by Holy Spirit Parish at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to Holy Spirit Church at 9 a.m Thursday where visitation will resume until time of the funeral mass.
Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Alex’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.
Born on September 19, 1953 at Carroll, Iowa, Alexander Douglas Toms was the son of Jim and Sheryl (Griffin) Toms. Alex grew up in Carroll and attended Carroll Community Schools. In May of 1971 Alex enlisted in the United States Marines Corps and was honorably discharged in November of 1976. He was united in marriage to Gayle Juergens on October 23, 1976 at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. For the past 35 years, Alex was employed at Juergens Produce and Feed where he was a dedicated addition to the team of employees. Everyone who knew Alex saw a person who needed little in life to be content. When he discovered the game of golf it became his favorite way to enjoy the outdoors. Alex loved playing golf each week with his friends, and particularly enjoyed exploring new courses around Iowa. He loved working on his lawn and took great pride making sure it was perfectly manicured. Alex was always ready to lend a helping hand to a friend who needed help with a project. Most of all, he loved his family and took great joy in spending time with his grandsons; especially going swimming and playing games with them.
Alex is survived by his wife of 35 years Gayle Toms of Carroll; his children: SSGT Jeffrey Toms and his wife Stephanie of Winchester, CA, Mark Toms and his wife Katie of Carroll, and Summer Ney and her husband Adam of Rosemount, MN; three grandchildren: Conrad, Nolan, and Landon Toms, and one future grandchild; his father Jim Toms and his wife Vickie of Lake View; his sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law: Shirley (Don) Fasbender of St. Louis, MO, Judy (Darrell) Spear of Ames, Linda (Joe) Kueper of Papillion, NE and Ron (Betty) Juergens of Carroll; as well as other relatives and many friends.
Alex was preceded in death by his mother Sheryl Ladehoff; his brother Jerry Toms; and his parents-in-law, Vernis and Wanda Juergens.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Debra Lynn Beiter – March 06 2012 at 12:47 PM

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Our deepest sympathies for your loss.

Mark & Sue Huebsch – March 05 2012 at 10:52 AM

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Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Dave and Toni Vaughn – March 05 2012 at 11:56 AM

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Jeff - We are so sorry for your loss! You are in our thoughts and prayers always! We love you so much! Love, Ben, Kristy and Addyson

Ben and Kristy Fyffe – March 05 2012 at 3:28 PM

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Gail, and family.... There are no words....just know that I will keep you in thoughts and prayers. Thank you for the privilege of caring for Alex. Peg Scheidt-St. Anthony's

Peg Scheidt-Chaplain – March 05 2012 at 4:55 PM

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