Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Wilma Boes, age 97 of Carroll and formerly of Breda, passed away on Wednesday, June 2, 2021 at St. Anthony Regional Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be Celebrated at 11 a.m. on Tuesday, June 8 at. St. Bernard Catholic Church in Breda. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott with Fr. Timothy Friedrichsen as the Concelebrant. Music will be provided by Jane Heithoff and Kathleen Macke. Mass servers for the service will be Carter Pudenz and Colby Pudenz. Lectors will be Tamara Lux, Tara Thomsen, and Tasha Badding. Eucharistic Minister will be Rita Hoebing. Honorary Casket Bearers will be Tim Pudenz, Russ Pudenz, Neil Pudenz, Tom Pudenz, Greg Pudenz, Wayne Pudenz, Steve O’Tool, and Dean O’Tool. Casket Bearers will be Kevin Lux, Mark Thomsen, Ron Badding, Nate Lux, Gabe Lux, Parker Badding, Jack Lux, and Brock Badding. The Breda American Legion Auxiliary will form an honor guard for the funeral mass. Burial will follow the service in St. Bernard’s Cemetery in Breda.

A visitation will be held on Tuesday from 9 a.m. until 10:30 a.m. at the church.

A livestream of Wilma’s funeral mass will be available on Christ the King Facebook page at
https://www.facebook.com/ChristTheKingCathollicCommunityBredaIowa/.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Anthony Hospice in honor of Wilma.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Wilma’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Wilma was born on January 17, 1924, the 6th of 12 children of Frank and Mayme (Wiederin) Pudenz. She lived her entire life in the Mt. Carmel and Breda area. She attended school at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel School through the 8th grade, after which she stayed home to help her family and the younger siblings.

On April 30, 1946, Wilma and Edmund Boes were married at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church by the Rev. Peter M. Sturm following Edmund’s discharge from the Army after he served during WWII. The couple farmed the Boes family farm 1 ½ miles northwest of Breda until 1958 when they were moved to their farm 3 miles northeast of Breda. Wilma and Edmund retired from farming and moved into Breda in 1984. Wilma moved to Carroll in 2017 when her health began to fail.

Wilma was an active farm wife and mother. She was a 4-H leader for many years and helped with the kids at the County Fair. Wilma enjoyed gardening, having lots of vegetable and flower gardens. She especially enjoyed sewing, quilting, and crocheting and continued to crochet baby blankets for St. Anthony Hospital Auxiliary well into her 90s. Her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren have all been gifted many of those quilts and blankets. Wilma loved to read having quite a collection of books, she enjoyed doing puzzles, crossword puzzles and word searches, and she loved watching Jeopardy on television. Wilma enjoyed her card clubs with several friends and neighbors who played “500” for several decades. She and Ed enjoyed traveling for a couple weeks each winter with another neighbor couple. After Ed’s death, Wilma still traveled with bus tours throughout the country. She enjoyed following sports, especially Iowa State, Iowa, and Creighton basketball, and the activities with her family. She loved filling in a bracket for March Madness and would check off her teams as the tournament progressed. She was her family’s biggest fan in whatever they were doing.

Wilma was a member of St. Bernard Parish, the Christian Mother Sodality, the Catholic Order of Foresters, the Breda Legion Auxiliary, and the St. Anthony Hospital Auxiliary. She attended daily mass as long as she was able and prayed the Rosary daily throughout her life, something her family did together even as young children with her mother leading them in prayer.

Wilma is survived by her children: Carol (Gary) Stark of Carroll, and Larry Boes of New York City, New York; three granddaughters: Tami (Kevin) Lux of Cedar Rapids, Tara (Mark) Thomsen and Tasha (Ron) Badding all of Carroll; ten great grandchildren: Nate, Gabe, and Jack Lux; Kennedy, Karsyn, and Kora Thomsen; and Parker, Mallory, Sophie, and Brock Badding; her brother and two sisters: Richard (Bea) Pudenz of Carroll, Edna Knobbe of Rose Creek, Minnesota, and Rita (John) Hoebing of Columbus, Nebraska; sisters-in-law: Bernice Pudenz and MaryAnn Pudenz; brother-in-law, Earl Boes; and many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

She was preceded in death by her husband Edmund on November 10, 1987; her son Gary on March 7, 1996; her parents Frank and Mayme Pudenz; her siblings Dorothy (Lawrence) O’Tool, Julitta (James) O’Tool, Wilbur (Clarise) Pudenz, Edwin (Leota) Pudenz, Leonard Pudenz, Leroy (Jean) Pudenz) Herbert (Mae) Pudenz, and James (Mary) Pudenz; brother-in-law Lenus Knobbe; and a brother in infancy, Joseph.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Carol and Gary Stark – June 03 2021 at 8:04 AM

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Please accept our deepest sympathy and condolences. Uncle Ed and Aunt Wilma earned the highest regards and respect of our family and the entire community. We were blessed to share out time on the planet with them. Dale & Vernell Thelen

Dale & Vernell Thelen – June 11 2021 at 12:34 PM

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So sorry for your loss. I always remember Aunt Wilma from the "Boes" reunions at the Breda park, when I was a kid. She was so nice and such a classy lady!

Anne Riesberg – June 07 2021 at 9:39 PM

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carol – June 07 2021 at 7:13 PM

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