Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Wilfred Ocken, age 87 of Carroll, died Tuesday, April 05, 2011 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m., Saturday, April 9, 2011 at Holy Spirit Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Johnson. Lector for the funeral mass will be Sister Joann Gehling, F.S.P.A. Gift Bearers will be Wilfred’s daughters: Diane Vonnahme, Marilyn Schaefer, and Jolene Riesselman. Eucharistic Ministers will be Diane Vonnahme and Margene Heisterkamp. Casket Bearers will be Wilfred’s grandchildren: Jason Vonnahme, Eric Vonnahme, Julie Podey, Brian Schaefer, Adam Schaefer, Alissa Riesselman, Nick Riesselman, and Austin Riesselman. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.
Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 3:30 p.m., Friday where there will be a rosary at 4 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service by the parish at 6:30 p.m. The casket will be taken to Holy Spirit Church at 8:30 a.m. Saturday to lie in state until time of the funeral mass. Memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for Holy Spirit Church, St. Anthony Alzheimer’s Unit, or Prairie Woods of Hiawatha.
Born on March 22, 1924 at Arcadia, Iowa, Wilfred J. Ocken was the son of Frank and Catherine (Anstoeter) Ocken. He grew up in the Arcadia community and attended St. John School. On February 19, 1952 he was united in marriage to Rose Gehling at Sts. Peter and Paul Church in Carroll. Wilfred worked for several farmers in the Arcadia area before working at Lange’s Creamery in Carroll for many years. From 1972 until his retirement in 1985 he was employed at Farmland Foods. Wilfred’s greatest enjoyment was his family and friends. He was a member of Holy Spirit Parish and Parish Men’s Club.
Survivors include his wife Rose Ocken of Carroll; daughters: Diane Vonnahme and her husband Allen of Arcadia, Marilyn Schaefer and her husband Steve of Carroll, and Jolene Riesselman and her husband Gary of Halbur; eight grandchildren; 13 great-grandchildren; sisters: Dolores Riesselman of Carroll, Agatha (Paul) Sailer of Bayard, and Charlotte Ocken of Omaha, NE; brother, Frank (Ann) Ocken of Omaha, NE; sisters in-law and brothers in-law: Rita Anstoeter of Carroll, Ed (Lorraine) Gehling of Carroll, Bob (JoAnn) Gehling of Carroll, Jim Gehling of Carroll, Sister Joann Gehling F.S.P.A. of Hiawatha, Jerry (Kathy) Gehling of Phoenix, AZ, Ed (Bonnie) Rasmussen of Newton, Linda Gehling of Carroll, Lillian Gehling of Grand Meadow, MN, and Delores (Bob) Nagl of Carroll, as well as many nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his parents; sister, Reinildis Venner; brother Norbert Ocken; brothers in-law and sisters in-law: Andrew Venner, Herb Riesselman, George Gehling, Vernon Gehling, Carl Gehling, Norma Rasmussen, Louise Schmitz, Walter Schmitz and Louis Anstoeter.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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My sympathy to the Diane and Allen and entire family. May you feel God's blessings in your time of grief.

Sam Schweers Palma – April 08 2011 at 1:29 PM

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Ed and I are so sorry to hear about your loss of Wilfred. Please know that our love and prayers are with you during this difficult time and in the days ahead. We are so sorry that we will not be able to make it to the funeral on Saturday. (This is my weekend to work.) We will be with you in spirit. We are sure that Dad (George) was there to greet him in heaven, when he arrived the other day. May God wrap His loving arms around you all and keep you close and feeling loved, at this time and always. Love, Patty and Ed

Patty and Ed McLean – April 07 2011 at 1:55 PM

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