Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Walter “Wally” Onken, son of Walter and Mary Onken, was born on July 28, 1943 in Carroll, IA. A lifelong resident of Carroll County, Wally attended Immanuel Lutheran Grade school through the eighth grade, and graduated from Carroll High School in 1961. He served in the United States Army from 1964 until 1966, after which he returned home to the family farm. He married Madeline Kroll on March 29, 1967. To their marriage was born two sons: Jeffrey Allen and Mark Michael.

In addition to farming, Wally worked for Garst and Thomas Seed Company for 6 years, and Barto Construction for 15 years. In 1997, he started his own tiling company, Onken Tiling, which he successfully ran until his retirement. A man of many talents and interests, Wally enjoyed playing cards, gardening, and watching baseball, football, Westerns, and history and nature documentaries.

Wally was preceded in death by his parents, Walter and Mary Onken, his brothers Lyle and Doyle Onken, his sister Lois Onken, his sister-in-law Beulah Onken, and his brother-in-law Larry Tigges. He is survived by his wife Madeline Onken of Carroll, his sons Jeffrey Onken of Lidderdale and Mark (Keary) Onken of Iowa City, his granddaughter Lorelai Onken of Iowa City, his sister-in-law Karen Onken of Jamaica Iowa and his many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great nephews, and many friends.

A memorial gathering celebrating his life is planned for April 2023.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Our very deepest Sympathy to the Family of Wally, our hearts and prayers are with you all, he was always such an amazing person, he will be missed, our hearts and prayers are with you all, Mary Ann & Danny Moore.

Mary Ann Moore – November 14 2022 at 4:50 PM

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Going to miss my buddy. I never realized all the stuff we visited about until things pop into my head and for a quick moment I think, I have to tell Wally that. I’m going to miss his incredible memory. He could remember everything that happened, I swear. He was my Wikipedia! ❤️

Ann Wenck – November 15 2022 at 6:47 PM

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Dear Madeline, Jeff, Mark and families, Jane and I send you our condolences over Wally's passing. When i think of Wally, he is sitting at the table in Grandma Mary's home playing cards with the "usual gang". And he has a huge grin on his face because he just won the big Mouser pot! Priceless memories! God's Blessings for you!

Allen Sievertsen – November 15 2022 at 10:21 PM

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Was always so interesting visiting with this amazing man Will Miss his witty humor , but will never forget it. So Blessed to visit and pray with him on Tuesday before he left us. Eternal Rest be with you Wally. My prayers are with your family

Karen Brightwell – November 16 2022 at 8:03 PM

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