Virgil “Buddy” D. Neumayer

07/19/1926 –
09/26/2010

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Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Virgil “Buddy” Neumayer, age 84, of Breda, Iowa, died late Sunday evening, September 26, 2010 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.
Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated 10:30 a.m., Thursday at St. Bernard’s Church in Breda. The celebrant will be Father Joe Dillinger. Mass Servers will be Bentley Wernimont and Sam Kemper. Lectors will be Kim Wiese, Angie Davis, Beth Seidl, and Becky Neppl. Gift Bearers will be Ashley Loneman, Jennifer Neumayer, Julie Neppl, and Emily Neumayer. Eucharistic Minister will be Allison Meisheid. Casket Bearers will be Kevin Neumayer, Brian Neumayer, Ryan Meisheid, Brent Meisheid, Jeff Loneman, and Corey Loneman. The Breda Catholic Order of Foresters will form an honor guard for the funeral mass. Burial will be in St. Bernard’s Cemetery at Breda. In lieu of flowers memorials may be left and the funeral home or the church for the Breda Volunteer EMT’s.
Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Breda after 2:30 p.m, Wednesday. There will be a rosary prayed by the Breda Catholic Order of Foresters at 3 p.m., followed by a Christian Wake Service by the parish at 6 p.m.
Virgil was born on July 19, 1926 at Breda, Iowa the son of Anton and Mary (Damm) Neumayer. He grew up in the Breda area and attended St. Bernard’s Grade School. Following his schooling Buddy began farming. On May 5, 1947 he was married to Betty Van Erdewyk at St. Bernard’s Church in Breda, Iowa by Father Leroy Frank. Buddy farmed east of Breda and stayed active in the farming operation for his entire life. In 1984 Buddy and Betty moved from the farm into Breda. Buddy loved farming, taking road trips to check the crops, and spending time with his family. He was a member of St. Bernard’s Church in Breda, and the Breda Catholic Order of Foresters.
Survivors include his wife Betty of Breda; his children: Clifford Neumayer and his wife Janet of Breda, Clyde Neumayer and his wife Christy of Breda, Nancy Meisheid and her husband Tom of Aurora, CO., JoAnn Neppl of Humboldt, and Dean Neumayer of West Des Moines; 15 grandchildren; 6 great-grandchildren; son in-law, Mike Loneman and his wife Terri of Huxley; sister, Darlene Oswald and her husband Paul of Carroll; step-brothers: Duane Ludwig and his wife Betty of Sioux Rapids, Norman Ludwig and his wife Mary of Breda, Orvie Ludwig and his wife Edna of Carroll; step sister-in-law, Norma Jean Ludwig of Vail.
He was preceded in death by his parents; daughter, LuAnn Loneman; son-in-law, Mike Neppl; sister in infancy, Mary Neumayer; step-brother Romaine Ludwig; step-father, Tony Ludwig.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Dean, So sorry to hear about your Father. Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Keep the wonderful memories you have of him close to your heart and he will be forever with you.

Anne M. Packer – September 28 2010 at 9:43 AM

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I am very sorry to hear about your loss.

Jody Jacklin – September 28 2010 at 9:22 AM

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We are thinking about you this week, Dean. Take care of yourself and your family.

Kathy Morgan – September 28 2010 at 9:01 AM

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I am so sorry to hear about Virgil's passing. I loved shooting the s*** with him whenever I would see him. He was a great guy. You are in my prayers.

Shannon (Nees) Reising – September 27 2010 at 12:37 PM

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