Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Vernon Grote, age 92, of Carroll, died Wednesday, April 3, 2024 at St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Wednesday, April 10, 2024 at St. Lawrence Church – St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm. Music will be by Kathy Halbur. Lectors will be John Grote and Dawn Schulz. Gift Bearers will be Terrence Sexton, Meagen Berger, and Zander Berger. Eucharistic Minister will be Deb Kult. Casket Bearers will be Dean Feltner, Alex Grote, Travis Heuton, Steven Berger, Andrew Berger, and Jon Neppel. Burial will be at 1:30 p.m. Wednesday at Dillavou Cemetery, rural Scranton.

Visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Tuesday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, a rosary will be prayed at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Lawrence Church on Wednesday morning where additional visitation will be held from 9:30 to 10:15 a.m.

Memorials may be left at the funeral home or at the church for a later memorial designation by the family.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Vernon’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Vernon, the son of Herman and Louisa (Janning) Grote was born on June 15, 1931 on the family farm north of Arcadia, Iowa. He graduated from St. Bernard’s High School in Breda. After high school Vernon acquired his electrical license and worked for Witt Electric and later at Ocoma Foods in maintenance department in Carroll. He would also work at Montgomery Ward, The Radiant Corporation, and as watchman for the building when Radiant Corporation closed. When General Electric acquired the building, he was the second hire for General Electric in Carroll and retired from there in 1991 as the head of maintenance. Vernon also repaired appliances and T.V.’s on the side.

On August 21, 1951 Vernon was united in marriage to Winona “Nonie” McCollum at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church in Breda. The couple lived southwest of Breda and in 1953 they moved to the Carroll community.
Vernon enjoyed playing cards, coin collecting, ham radio, traveling to all 50 states, genealogy, camping, canoeing, hiking, or anything outdoors. Vernon also enjoyed wintering in Arizona with his wife Nonie. Vernon had a deep devotion to his faith leading the daily rosary at the nursing home until his health didn’t permit it. Vernon was a member of St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll.

Vernon is survived by his children: Louisa (Donnie) Feltner of Storm Lake, Robert (Marj) Grote of Kansas City Mo, Louis (Cindy) Grote of Carroll, Dale (Diane) Grote of Springville, IN, Jolene (Dale) Berger of Arcadia, Kathy (Maynard) Hull of Lake City, Allen Grote (and friend Michele Craven-Robertson) of Lake City, Brenda (Lynn) Heuton of Carroll; son-in-law: Jim Neppel of Carroll; 24 grandchildren; 37 great-grandchildren; 11 great-great-grandchildren; brothers: Leonard (Jean) Grote of Breda, and Joe (Donna) Grote of Carroll; his sisters-in-law Charla Grote of Farnhamville; Anna McCollum of Mountain Home, AR as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives.

Vernon was preceded in death by his wife Winona in 2015; parents; daughters: Sanda Fritz, and Joan Neppel; grandchildren: Jodi Grote, Mary Beth Feltner; great-grandchildren Kyd Pedersen; Nile Heithoff; Gerald Anderson; siblings: Erwin Grote, Elmer (Lois) Grote, and Louis Grote; and his in-laws: Francis McCollum, Floyd McCollum.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Ever since our daughter in law Ella helped take care of Vernon, he always called me on my birthday, what a special guy, and cousin he was. I would call him once in while to see how things were going, Vernon's memory was amazing. I took a picture tonight near the Breda area that reminds me 100 percent of Vernon. We will miss talking with Vernon.

Beth Bobenmoyer & Family – April 08 2024 at 9:12 PM

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Visited Vernon at the nursing home and enjoyed visiting with him . He would always lead the rosary at mass in the chapel was very much appreciated ! May he Rest In Peace !!

Bob and Vickie Boes – April 04 2024 at 8:55 PM

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Lit a candle in memory of Vernon Grote

Susan Teter-Lord – April 08 2024 at 9:18 AM

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Sympathy to all the family. VERNON always had time to visit. Vickie DUff and family .

Vickie DUff – April 08 2024 at 3:08 PM

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To all the Grote Family….My sincere sympathy to you on the loss of Vernon…..Your dad was such a nice guy & was always friendly….I worked @ G.E. Also….Now Vernon & Nonie are together again….May Vernon R. I. P…..

Kristi Schuler Jorgensen – April 10 2024 at 12:28 PM

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