Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Verna Mayer, 97 of Carroll, died Saturday, July 26, 2025 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Thursday, July 31, 2025 at Holy Spirit Church – St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Allan Reicks. Concelebrant will be Fr. Gary Snyder. Music will be by Kathy Halbur and Kathleen Macke. Gift Bearers will be Elizabeth Mata, Marita Stapleton, and Kathryn Stapleton. Eucharistic Minister will be Judy Mayer. Casket Bearers will be Verna’s family. The Carroll Catholic Daughters of the Americas will form an honor guard for the Funeral Mass. Burial will be at 1 p.m., Thursday in St. Mary’s Cemetery in Willey.

A visitation will be held from 4-6 p.m. on Wednesday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 6 p.m. by the Carroll Catholic Daughters of the Americas. Additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. on Thursday at the church. Memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.
Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Verna’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Verna was born on March 14, 1928 in Halbur, Iowa the daughter of Frank and Rose (Drees) Wittrock. She had many fond memories of growing up on the family farm and attending local dances and socials. In 1948, she married Leo Mayer and raised four children. Verna and Leo ran ‘Mayer’s Tavern’ from 1959-1971. After her husband’s death, Verna worked in the St. Anthony Hospital dietary department for more than 25 years. After retirement, Verna volunteered at the Saint Anthony Hospital gift shop, New Hope Village store, RSVP and sewed hundreds of quilt tops for the missions.

Thanks to Verna, the Mayer household in Willey was a hub of hospitality. Elaborate breakfasts after midnight Mass on Christmas, Sunday evening pizza, fried donuts, and angel food cakes for birthdays were long-held traditions. The fried chicken at Mayer’s Tavern was a favorite for miles around. Our friends were always welcome to visit, and mom’s home was always open to guests. Even as her hearing failed in her later years, she was always happy to see someone walk through the door.

Verna is lovingly remembered by her three surviving children, Jerry Mayer and wife Debbie of The Villages FL, Anna Mae Mayer of Newport Rhode Island, Susan Stapleton her husband Joe and children, Marita and Kathryn of Indianapolis, Indiana; her son-in-law, Michael Pierce and his daughter, Elizabeth Mata; her great-grandson, Santiago Mata; two brothers, Harold Wittrock and Romen (Verena) Wittrock; her sisters-in-law, Arlene Wittrock and Veronica Quandt; as well as other extended relatives.

She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband, Leo; her daughter, Irene Pierce; her siblings: Lucina (Wilbur) Truhe, Fred (Lucille) Wittrock, Regina (Clarence) Reineke, Robert Wittrock, Elvera (Andrew) Daniel; and her sister-in-law, Joann Wittrock.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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A wonderful and caring Aunt. Verna is now in a Beautiful place… surrounded by her loved ones who have been waiting for her. Prayers to her children.

Sandy – July 26 2025 at 6:00 PM

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Verna was the best The smile on her face when I came over. She never complained about anything. Now a time of peace with her daughter and husband. You guys had a great mom

Kris Nagl – July 27 2025 at 3:24 PM

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Verna was the best Godmother and I always enjoyed our visits and our mutual liking of Godfather's Pizza. A blessed life she lived! Ann Halbur

Ann Halbur – July 27 2025 at 8:22 PM

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I remember your mom making us (Susan & me) pancakes in the morning after staying nights at the Mayer household. Thought I was heaven ! Your mother was an incredible woman. The very best. Rest easy Verna. Kathleen Mayer

Kathleen Mayer – July 28 2025 at 7:47 PM

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My sympathy to her family. I got to know Verna through Catholic Daughters. Such a sweet lady. Enjoyed visiting with her. May she rest in peace.

Bev Vonnahme – July 29 2025 at 7:11 PM

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