Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Thomas Lee Dentlinger, age 60, of Carroll died Monday, August 22, 2016 at St. Anthony Regional Hospital in Carroll surrounded by his family after a courageous battle with bone cancer.

A funeral mass will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Thursday, August 25, 2016 at Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Johnson. Music will be by Barb McDermott and the Holy Spirit Choir. Mass Servers will be Mitchell and Parker Badding. Lectors will be Diane Dentlinger, and Karen Daniel. Gift Bearers will be Nicole Dentlinger, and Kelsey Dentlinger. Eucharistic Ministers will be Joni Badding and Joe and Katie Daniel. Honorary Pall Bearers will be Joe Renze, Chris Loew, Kelly Feldman, and Larry McCullough. Burial will be at 1 p.m. at Holy Family Cemetery near Lidderdale.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 5 p.m. on Wednesday, where there will be a Christian Wake Service held at 7 p.m.

Visitation will resume at 9 a.m. Thursday at Holy Spirit Church, and continue until the time of the funeral mass.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Tom’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Tom was born on March 16, 1956 in Carroll, Iowa to Elmer and Elaine (Hitzemann) Dentlinger. He was raised on a farm near Arcadia, Iowa where he attended grade school, and then attended Kuemper Catholic High School, and Carroll High School.

Tom was an avid golfer at the Carroll Muni, and played on a local pool league for many years. Tom loved crossword puzzles, watching college and NFL football, and college basketball, especially March Madness. He really loved his sports. Tom worked for Syngenta in Mt. Carmel for 33 years before retiring in July of 2016. He loved to socialize by going out to eat and camping with friends and family. He really enjoyed family outings and time with friends. Tom “TD” could frequently be heard saying “Are you kidding me?” on the golf course, and when asked how he golfed that day, he would respond “I played like a pig,” Tom had a deep devotion to his faith, he was a member of Holy Spirit Church in Carroll.

Tom was preceded in death by his father, Elmer Dentlinger, a brother Chris Dentlinger, a sister, Pam Small and her husband Jack Small, paternal grandparents: Joe and Anna Dentlinger, maternal grandparents: Fred and Matilda Hitzemann, and many aunts, uncles, and cousins.
He is survived by his mother, Elaine V. Dentlinger of Carroll, his brothers, Duane (Wanita) Dentlinger of Carroll, Roy Dentlinger of Glendale, AZ, his very special friend, Cindy Schumacher of Carroll; nieces: Nicole Dentlinger of Ankeny, and Kelsey Dentlinger and her fiancé Joe Karstens of Glidden, nephews: Dave (Dora) Dentlinger of Carroll, and Ryan Pruitt and his fiancé Crystal Koehler of Sioux Falls, SD, and a great nephew Logan Karstens of Glidden; as well as many cousins, and extended family.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Rest in peace Tom. My pool shooting buddy of 20 some years. You've been our camping buddy for many years. We love you and we will miss you greatly and be thinking of you when we sit around the campfire. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Cindy and also to Tom's family.

Bonnie McCullough – August 22 2016 at 5:51 PM

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So sorry for your loss...praying for peace and comfort.

Ben and Donna Shanks – August 23 2016 at 7:04 AM

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Great person, great competitor, great uncle… you will be missed Tom

Dave T Dentlinger – August 23 2016 at 11:14 AM

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Tom always had a smile and something to say that would make you shake your head and laugh. Never a dull moment and lots of laughter and smiles!! He will be dearly missed!! Tom, thank you for the good times and laughter! It's been a real pleasure and honor to have met you. Rip and glad you can be pain free finally.

Jodi Caughey – August 24 2016 at 12:38 AM

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Condolences to the family and friends. RIP Tom, old friend. Cheri Waldon Schoneboom

Cheri Schoneboom – August 25 2016 at 6:43 PM

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