Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Theresa Mayer, age 86, of Carroll, Iowa, died early Monday, November 9, 2009, at St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll. Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 A.M., Thursday, November 12, 2009, at Holy Spirit Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Father Timothy Johnson. Con-celebrants will be Father Gary Snyder and Father John Gerald. The casket will be taken to the church at 8:30 A.M. Thursday to lie in state until the time of the funeral mass. Lectors will be great grandchildren, Kristen Vollstedt and T.J. Bruch. The Petitions will be read by great grandchildren, Alex Bruch, Nate Bruch, and Austin Sibenaller. Gift Bearers will be great grandchildren, Chloe Venteicher, Collin Venteicher, Ava Venteicher, Grant Sibenaller, Logan Sibenaller, Emily Venteicher, Nic Venteicher, and Cailin Vollstedt. Mass Servers will be great grandchildren, Jacob Bruch, Ashley Sibenaller, and Jared Vollstedt. Eucharistic Minister will be a grandson-in-law, Steve Vollstedt. Casket Bearers will be grandchildren, Jill Bruch, Janell Vollstedt, Todd Venteicher, Jamie Venteicher, Wendy Sibenaller, Chris Venteicher, Pat Venteicher, Joey Pudenz, and Andy Pudenz. Burial will be at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll. Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 4 P.M. Wednesday. There will be a Christian wake service at 6:30 P.M. Wednesday by Holy Spirit Parish. Mrs. Mayer was born on May 13, 1923, at Roselle, Iowa, the daughter of Henry and Catherine (Steffes) Starman. She spent her younger years in the Roselle community and attended Holy Angels School. On May 14, 1946, she was married to Paul Mayer at St. John Church in Adair, Iowa. The couple farmed near Manning and then north of Carroll until March 1956 when they moved to Carroll. From 1961 until 1969 Theresa headed the Hot Lunch Program at Saint Peter and Paul School and from 1969 until her retirement in 1993 was employed as the manager of the Children’s Department at the former Sernett Department Store in Carroll. She was a member of Holy Spirit Parish and the Parish Ladies Guild, and served as Past President of the Holy Spirit Ladies Guild. Survivors include her husband, Paul Mayer of Carroll; her two daughters, Betty Venteicher and her husband Gary of Carroll and Joyce Pudenz and her husband Tom of Glidden; nine grandchildren; sixteen great grandchildren; a brother, Louis Starman and his wife Eunice of Carroll; sisters, Margaret Kasperbauer of Manning and Sophia Rees and her husband Milo of Guthrie Center; and sisters-in-law, Dorothy Halbur of Carroll, Veronica Quandt of Carroll, Verna Mayer of Carroll, and Emma Mayer of Carroll. She was preceded in death by her parents; a sister, RosA Starman; brothers, Anthony Starman and his wife Lorraine, and Bernard and Anton Starman, in infancy; her father and mother-in-law, Frank and Teresa Mayer; and brothers and sisters-in-law, Jerome Kasperbauer, Frank and Eleanor Mayer, Ben and Alice Mayer, Agnes and Irvin Snyder, Jean and Ed Hansen, Joe Mayer, Leo Mayer, Adrian Halbur, Theresa and Mike Schaffer, and Don Quandt.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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I was sorry to hear of Theresa's death. I enjoyed working with her at Sernett's Department Store. You are all in my prayers.

Jeanne Harman Hammen – November 10 2009 at 1:49 PM

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We offer our deepest sympathy to you and your family

Judie and Gary Frideres – November 09 2009 at 1:28 PM

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