Theodore “Ted” H. Starman

10/13/1921 –
11/16/2013

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Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Ted Starman, 92, of Carroll, died Saturday, November 16, 2013 at St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be held 2 p.m. Tuesday, November 19, 2013 at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Timothy Schott. Music will be by Marcy Anderson and the St. Lawrence Choir with Shari Schulte as song leader. Lector for the mass will be Ted’s niece Joan Wiederhold. Gift bearers will be Ted’s children: Duane Starman, Janet Sheer, and Bob Starman. Eucharistic Ministers will be Ted’s daughters and son-in-law: Sandy Theulen, and Lois and Greg Harkin. Casketbearers will be Ted’s grandchildren: David Sheer, Bobby Theulen, Colton Theulen, Kelly Theulen, Christy Theulen, Taylor Starman, Madison Starman, and Rachel Francis. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 3:30 p.m. on Monday where there will be a Knights of Columbus Rosary at 4 p.m. and a Christian Wake Service by St. Lawrence Parish at 6 p.m.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences for Ted’s family can be shared at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Theodore Herman, “Ted” was born on October 13, 1921 in Roselle, Iowa the son of Theodore and Mary (Renze) Starman. He attended Holy Angels School thru the eighth grade. During his younger years Ted helped his parents with the work on the farm. On September 16, 1952 he was united in marriage to Alice Baumhover at Sts. Peter and Paul Catholic Church in Carroll. The couple made their home near Roselle from 1952 to 1962, and then moved two miles west of Dedham for ten years. In 1972 they moved to their home in Carroll. Over the years Ted worked for Taphorn Creamery in Roselle, Lytton Creamery, Carroll Roller Mill, and the Carroll City Cemetery. Ted enjoyed working, helping his sons with farm work, walks to Swan Lake, playing cards, especially card parties, bowling, baseball, driving around the countryside and commenting about other farms, and taking his grandchildren to the park. He was known as a simple man, devoted to his work, and more importantly, his family. He was a member of St. Lawrence Parish, and the Carroll Knights of Columbus.

Survivors include his children: Janet and her husband Wendell Sheer of Kempner, TX, Duane Starman of Carroll, Lois Harkin and her husband Greg of West Des Moines, Don Starman and his wife Janice of Arcadia, Sandy Theulen of Auburn, and Bob Starman and his wife Shelley of Denison; nine grandchildren; seven great-grandchildren.

Ted was preceded in death by his parents; wife Alice in June of 1998; a great-granddaughter, Kirsten Frank; and his siblings: John Starman, Joe Starman, Mary Dopheide, Kate Bierl, and Rose Roth.

The family would like to extend a heartfelt thank you to Dr. Dominic Ervelli, and all of the staff at St. Anthony Nursing Home for all of the care and support you have shown our family.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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We love you grandpa. I know we will see you again someday. Those walks around Swan Lake and the times you took my brother and I to the parks is something I will always cherish.

Rachel Francis – November 17 2013 at 1:06 PM

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So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Tim & Deb Pietig

Deb Pietig – November 18 2013 at 7:38 AM

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My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time; saying Good-bye is so difficult. May you find comfort knowing your Dad lived a very good life and is truly at peace. Rhonda Straight

Rhonda Straight – November 18 2013 at 9:53 AM

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May remembering all the love of your Father left behind ease the pain you feel in his loss. And as you recall all the sweet memories you have of him, may your heart be comforted. Please know that you are in our thoughts at this sad time. Saying good-bye is very hard when you loose a loved one but you have loving ones around you plus your memories of your dad. He is in a loving place now. You are in our thoughts and prayers. From John and Diana Sheer, Chris White and J.J.

Diana Sheer – November 18 2013 at 2:21 PM

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We are so sorry for your loss. Ted was such a friendly and humble person.Our prayers and sympathies go out to your families. Steve & Sue Seidl

Steve Seidl – November 19 2013 at 2:50 AM

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