Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Steve Kock, 68 of Carroll, died early Wednesday morning, May 11, 2022, at Journey Senior Services in Carroll.
A visitation will be held from 3-6 p.m. on Saturday, May 14, 2022, at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll. Following the visitation, Steve’s family invites everyone to a Celebration of his life and hors d’oeuvres in the Sharp Center next to the funeral home.
Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Steve’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.
Steve was larger than life but the littlest of the three Kock brothers.

The little Cookie was brought into this world on June 25, 1953, by his parents Don and Leona Kock. He left this world on May 11, 2022.

He grew up on the family farm near Lanesboro, Iowa. He graduated as valedictorian of Lohrville High School in 1971. He then attended Buena Vista College earning a Bachelor of Science in biology. He also graduated from the Iowa Law Enforcement Academy.

Steve honorably served the public as a police officer in Storm Lake, Iowa, where he met his future wife Jane Schrier, and began a family. They eventually moved to Coralville, Iowa where Steve continued his career as a police officer. Steve then transitioned from law enforcement to a long career in banking throughout west-central Iowa. He found great pride and purpose helping so many members of the community with their financial needs. The family has lived for most of the last 40 years in the Carroll area.
Steve shared his passion for sports with as many members of the community as possible as a flag football and junior high football coach, then later as a high school tennis coach for Kuemper. He found his true calling in sports journalism later in life as a color commentator on the radio for local football, baseball, and basketball games; a photojournalist and freelance sportswriter for newspapers; and as videographer, writer, and on-air personality for Midwest Sports Weekly.
As a final act of generosity, Steve donated his brain for dementia research at the University of Maryland.
He is survived by many who love him, beginning with Jane (whom he met when she failed him on a motorcycle driving test…but agreed to a first date tennis match!).

His daughter Onica Ulveling (who he taught to love baseball, the Yankees, to appreciate pop culture, fostered her independence and supported her as she earned her doctorate.) her husband Kyle (who barely passed Steve’s test, most likely by sharing his love for Iowa Hawkeye Sports), and his grandsons Jack (who inherited his love of sports), and James (who inherited his love of music and movies).

His son Tyler (who inherited Steve’s love of golf, baseball, aviation, and followed in Steve’s footsteps of public service as a civilian employee of the Federal Government) and his wife Megan (who shared Steve’s love of football and cherishes the memories of game day at Green Bay and Iowa State University).

His favorite sister Kathy Law, her husband Dave, and his sister-in-law Deb Kock. He is also survived by many other family members whose company he greatly enjoyed.

Steve was preceded in death by his parents and brothers Mike and Ron (the big Cookies).

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Loving Grace was purchased for the family of Steve Kock.

Comment #37313214 – May 11 2022 at 8:48 PM

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I worked with Steve when he was in Storm Lake. He was a great guy and was glad to know him. Very sorry for your loss.

Mark VanHooser – May 17 2022 at 5:24 PM

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Basket of Memories was purchased for the family of Steve Kock.

Comment #37366226 – May 13 2022 at 3:45 PM

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Our sincere condolences to you Jane and all your family! ♥️

Debra Fahn – May 12 2022 at 11:43 PM

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So sorry for your loss. My siblings and I rode the bus with Steve during all his LHS years and I was a classmate of Mike. My sympathies.

Rita Berning Wolf – May 12 2022 at 10:37 PM

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