Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Steve Fernandez, age 70 of Dedham and formerly of Ankeny, died Friday, December 14, 2012 at the Manilla Manor Nursing Home in Manilla surrounded by his family.
A funeral service will be held at 2 p.m. on Wednesday, December 19, 2012 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. Officiating will be Deacon Louis Meiners. Soloist will be Jeremy Mathany. Readings will be by Steve’s granddaughter, Hailey Birdsall. Petitions will be read by Steve’s grandchildren. Urn Bearer will be Bob Volp. Burial will be at a later date at St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham.
Steve’s family will greet friends and family one hour prior to services at the church on Wednesday. Steve’s family will direct memorials to the Cuban Refugees and those families affected from the Newtown, Connecticut School Tragedy.
A celebration of life service for Steve will also be held on Friday, December 21, 2012 at the Vittoria Lodge, 7200 NW 2nd Ave. Ankeny, Iowa, 50021 from 7 p.m. – 12 a.m.
Funeral arrangements were under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Steve’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.
Steve Fernandez, born Jesus Esteban Fernandez Martinez, was born in Cienfuegos, Cuba on December 23, 1941. He was the only son of Etelvino and Lida (Martinez) Fernandez. Together, very hard working, they owned and operated the Hotel Union in Cienfuegos. During his late teenage years he was imprisoned for two months during the Cuban Revolution for distributing anti Castro propaganda. Due to his father’s connection with law enforcement he was released from prison. Fearing further imprisonment he fled to Spain to live with his paternal grandmother for two years.
In 1962 he arrived in the United States. Steve knew little English and settled briefly in Long Island, New York with a close cousin Roger. While there he met his first wife, Linda. Together they moved to Gainesville, Florida where he played college and semi pro baseball. During this time baseball was not a lucrative career so he went back to his roots and his love of the sea and became a life guard.
In May of 1967, he became a citizen of the United States and legally changed his name to Steve Fernandez. Steve and Linda then moved to the Ankeny area. While in Ankeny, Steve coached baseball as one of his hobbies. He raised two children, Robert and Cary and settled into a career at Firestone where he worked 25 years until retirement. On October 4, 2005 Steve married Dixie Christensen at the Botanical Center in Des Moines, Iowa. Following their marriage the couple made their home in Dedham, Iowa. He enjoyed hunting, fishing, dancing, and was an avid Chicago Cubs and Iowa Hawkeyes fan.
Steve loved his family and loved people. He would entertain them with his Cuban humor and Cuban accent. He will be remembered most for his sensitivity and his unselfish character. Most dear to Steve were his friends, family, and his family that remains in Cuba and Florida.
Left to cherish his memory are his wife Dixie Christensen Fernandez of Dedham; his children: Robert Fernandez and fiancé Janine Buchanan of Indianola and Cary Birdsall and husband Scott of Huxley; his step-daughter, Megan Volp and her husband Bob of West Des Moines; his grandchildren: Alysia Fernandez, Jessica (Pete) Augustine, Erica Fernandez, Victoria Fernandez, Hailey Birdsall, Riley Birdsall, Ava Birdsall, Elizabeth Reams, and Danielle Brady; his step-grandchildren: Aiden Volp and Cora Volp; his great-granddaughter, Emma Augustine; his sister-in-law, Debbie Mathany; his close friend and fishing buddy, Art Valentine; as well as his close cousins and dear friends in Florida.
Steve was preceded in death by his parents; and his cousin Roger Fernandez.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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Hi Dixie & Family, We were sure sorry to hear about Steve passing this past weekend. The poor guy has had to endure a lot more than the good Lord should allow. We want to wish you and your family the best during this difficult holiday season too. The Vollstedt's, Steve & Janell

Steve Vollstedt – December 19 2012 at 9:08 AM

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So sorry to hear of Steve's passing. I Remember the good times we had playing softball for OLIH in Ankeny.

Jack & Vi Leinen – December 18 2012 at 10:30 AM

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I was so very sorry, Dixie, Megan, and ALL, to hear the news about Steve! (Christine had told me that he was ill.) I don't think that we can make the service, I'll try tomorrow, but it's quite difficult to find someone to work for you, especially at this time of year! I can still see and remember him "tickling Debbie's feet", at one of the gatherings. TAKE CARE! CAROL, Larry, Kevin, & ALL

Carol Volp, Larry & Kevin Koeneke – December 18 2012 at 2:51 PM

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Our thoughts are will you all during this difficult time. The times that were spent with Steve were always full of laughter and cheer. He will be missed by many.

Christine and Tony Hodgkins – December 17 2012 at 8:32 PM

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Dixie, Our thoughts and prays go out to you and your family during this difficult time. My God be with you during your time of need.

Christina Bricker – December 17 2012 at 4:58 PM

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