Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Shirley J. Schoeppner, age 97, of Carroll, died Wednesday, November 11, 2020 at Accura Healthcare in Carroll.

A funeral mass will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, November 17, 2020 at Holy Spirit Church- St. John Paul II Parish in Carroll. The celebrant will be Fr. Kevin Richter, and instrumental music will be by Kate Cuddy. Burial will be at 2 p.m. Tuesday at Sacred Heart Cemetery in Templeton.

Those in attendance at the funeral mass are required to wear a face mask and abide by all Covid-19 restrictions.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Shirley’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com. Those wishing to mail a memorial may direct it to Shirley Schoeppner Family, C/O Sharp Funeral Home, 226 W. 8th Street, Carroll, IA 51401.

Shirley Jean, the middle daughter of Paul Clark and Gladys (Hamblin) Pierce, was born December 30, 1922 at Harlan, Iowa. She spent her younger years in the Harlan area. According to her high school yearbook photo, she was known as “a little piece of mischief”. In 1941, Shirley graduated second in her class of 99 from Harlan High School. Several years later, she met the love of her life, Don Schoeppner. On May 28,1951, she and Don were married in Cedar Falls, Iowa. The couple made their home in Templeton, Iowa; where they raised their four sons, Scott, Randy, Bob, Sam.

Shirley’s love of dogs, began a new adventure for her. She began to raise and breed West Highland Terriers and Lhasa Apso pups. She called her kennel Happy Acre. Her reputation led to a job with the State of Iowa as a kennel inspector.

In 1982, she sold her property in Templeton, and moved to an apartment in Carroll. She was a member of Holy Spirit Catholic Church. She was a member of the St. Anthony Auxiliary and also volunteered at New Hope Village. Shirley was an avid reader. She enjoyed playing bridge and meeting often with friends for coffee and a visit. When she was no longer able to live independently, she moved to Accura Healthcare Center.

Survivors include her sons, Sam Schoeppner (Kathy) of Midland, Tx; Robert Schoeppner of Noel, Mo., daughter-in-law Dolly Schoeppner (Scott d.) of Riverside, Ca. 5 grandchildren, Scott Jr. ( Julie), Sean Schoeppner (Tamara), Don Schoeppner II, Jacob Koester (Ashley), Justin Garcia; 14 great-grandchildren, 4 great-great-grandchildren and many extended family and friends.

Shirley was preceded in death by her parents, her husband Don (1974), her son Randall (2007), her son Scott (2011), and two sisters, Betty Stowe and Virginia Nelson.

The family would like to thank the nurses and staff of Accura Healthcare, Kindred Hospice, and the many family, friends and volunteers who visited with Shirley. And a very special and heartfelt thank you to Kathy Irlbeck, who was her caregiver, and became her devoted and beloved friend.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Poor Shirley. it's been so long since i've seen her but what a wonderful friend she was to my mom! i actually think her & Don may have been my parents' 1st friends they met in Carroll. and i remember them living in Templeton & going to visit & playing w/the dogs that Shirley/Don raised. such fun for me! Super nice people. I am so sorry for your loss. Claudia Goins

Claudia Loneman – November 12 2020 at 11:25 AM

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Rest in peace Aunt Shirley. United again with Don.,Scott and Randy. hank you to the staff that cared for her. She always had nice things to say about her care. My condolences to Sam, Bob Dolly and their families . Shell Irlbeck

Shell Irlbeck – November 12 2020 at 1:19 PM

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Rest in peace, Shirley. You were such a good friend to Donna. To her family, we are sorry for your loss.

Becki Miller – November 12 2020 at 7:52 PM

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I had the privilege of taking care of Shirley for many years. We became great friends, will miss her. Sympathy to her family. Kathy Irlbeck

Kathy Irlbeck – November 13 2020 at 3:29 PM

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Schoeppner family: When we delivered Meals on Wheels to Shirley, and discovered our mutual love of Westies, we became fast friends. We even took our dog to visit her, both at home and at the nursing home. We all enjoyed that! Shirley was a sweetheart, and we will miss her. Wes & CJ Niles

Wes & CJ Niles – November 16 2020 at 10:47 PM

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