Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Shirley Mattes, 93 of Carroll, died Monday, December 6, 2021, at Regency Park Nursing Home in Carroll.
Funeral Services will be 11 a.m., Friday, December 10, 2021, at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with Fr. Kevin Richter officiating. Casket Bearers will be Doug Bolte, Wes Bierl, Alicia Bierl, Keegan Malone, Haley Pudenz, and Taylor Pudenz. Burial will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Carroll.
Visitation will be from 10-10:45 a.m., on Friday at the Sharp Funeral Home. Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Shirley’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.
Born on May 12, 1928, in Vail, Iowa, Shirley Ann Mattes was the daughter of Peter and Ann (Snyder) Hoffman. She received her education at St. Ann’s in Vail, graduating in 1947. On June 20, 1949, she married Stephen Mattes. The couple lived in Nebraska, Minnesota, and returned to Carroll to make their home south of Carroll on Stephen’s parents, John and Clara’s farm. They were blessed with 3 children.
Shirley earned her CNA and worked at Speakers Nursing Home in the 60’s and later at St. Anthony Nursing Home for 20 years. She was a waitress at Mac’s Casino Café and other restaurants in Carroll. She loved meeting people. To earn extra money, she cleaned houses in the Carroll area and also cared for her parents when their health began to decline. Shirley enjoyed playing cards, dominoes, crossword puzzles, and watching her favorite TV shows. When company came over the coffee was always on. In her younger years she went dancing at the 5-mile house and Indian Village. Shirley volunteered with RSVP and was a member of St. Lawrence Church.
Shirley was able to live in her apartment until 2019. Her family is grateful for the excellent and loving care she received in her final days at Regency Park Nursing Home.
Shirley is survived by her children: Nadine Werneburg of Carroll, Sylvan (Rhonda) Mattes of Carroll and Tonda (Doug) Bolte of Albert City; grandchildren: Alicia (Wes) Bierl, Jeremy Werneburg, Nathan Werneburg, Stepanie (Sal) Sani Saidou; great-grandchildren: Keegan, Taylor, Haley, Kyler, Charlie, Jamil, Amina, and Modesty; as well as other extended relatives and friends.
Shirley was preceded in death by her parents; her brothers, Ambrose, Richard, Raymond, and Ralph; her sister, Dolores Pokorny; her sister-in-law, Charlene Hoffman; and an infant granddaughter.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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My sympathy to. All her children. My mother use to work with your Mom at Speakers nursing home. May .God be all of you. Mary Patton

Marcella Patton – December 07 2021 at 4:17 PM

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My sympathy to the family. I worked with Shirley at St Anthony’s Nursing home in 1975/76. Sweet lady. May she test in peace.

Bev Vonnahme – December 08 2021 at 9:47 AM

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Nadine, Sylvan, and Tonda, I am so sorry to hear of Aunt Shirley's passing. She is now with Grandma and Grandpa and all of her brothers and with Mom. They must be having a party in Heaven right now. Aunt Shirley was so fun, I remember her awesome stories and laughter when we saw her at Grandma's house. You are all in my prayers. Love from your cousin Kathy.

Kathy Quinlan – December 08 2021 at 9:33 PM

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So sorry Rhonda and family. Shirley was so much fun to work with at St Anthony's nursing home. She will be missed dearly 🙏❤️

Kim Bauman Boeckman – December 10 2021 at 9:01 PM

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Lit a candle in memory of Shirley Mattes

VICKIE DUFF – December 13 2021 at 3:06 PM

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