Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Sandra Ulveling, age 82, of Carroll, formerly of Breda, died Saturday, January 19, 2019 at St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Saturday, January 26, 2019 at St. John Paul II Parish – Holy Spirit Church in Carroll. The Celebrant will be Fr. Kevin Richter. Con-Celebrant will be Fr. Gary Snyder. Music will be by Dr. Franklyn Busby and the Holy Spirit Resurrection Choir. Mass Server will be Jack Ulveling. Lectors will be Dr. Robert Langenfeld and Tom Collison. Gift Bearers will be Dr. Robert and June Langenfeld and Sharon and Tom Collison. Casket Bearers will be Kirk Ulveling, Kraig Ulveling, Kent Ulveling, Kyle Ulveling, Wayne Pick, Darrell Henkenius, and Patrick Gradoville. Burial will be at 12:30 p.m. Saturday at St. Bernard’s Cemetery in Breda.

Friends may call at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll after 4 p.m. on Friday. There will be a Rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to Holy Spirit Church on Saturday morning, where visitation will continue from 9 to 9:45 a.m.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll, and online condolences may be left for Sandy’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Sandy, the daughter of Felix and Bernadette (Conroy) Langenfeld, was born on March 14, 1936 at St. Anthony Hospital in Carroll, Iowa. She grew up in Carroll and graduated from St. Angela’s Academy in 1954. Sandy then enrolled with the St. Anthony School of Nursing in Carroll, and graduated in 1957.

On August 10, 1957, Sandy was united in marriage to Jim Ulveling at St. Lawrence Catholic Church in Carroll. The couple made their home in Breda, where Sandy was a devoted wife and mother to Jim and their seven children. Sandy was also a member of St. Bernard’s Catholic Church, St. Bernard’s Ladies Guild, the Breda American Legion Auxiliary, and the St. Anthony’s Nurses Alumni Association. In addition, Sandy served a distinguished career as a nurse at St. Anthony Hospital in Carroll and the Carroll Manor. In 2013, Sandy and Jim moved to Carroll due to health reasons and joined St. John Paul II Parish. They cherished their Breda memories and continued to consider it “home”.

Sandy enjoyed trips to Okoboji with great friends, playing bridge with her card group, and traveling. One of her most memorable trips was with Jim and their close friends for their 50th Wedding Anniversary. They took a few weeks traveling by car from Breda to the Pacific Coast and then to the Atlantic Coast. Sandy’s greatest joys in life were her family and grandchildren. Sandy truly led the perfect example of the importance of faith, family, friends and service to others.

Left to celebrate Sandy’s life is her husband Jim Ulveling of Carroll; children: Kirk Ulveling of Cedar Rapids, Kraig (Michelle) Ulveling of Red Wing, MN, Kelley (Wayne) Pick of Oyens, Kerry (Darrell) Henkenius of Carroll, Kent (Michele) Ulveling of Cary, NC, Kristy (Patrick) Gradoville of Palos Verdes Estates, CA, Kyle (Onica) Ulveling of Carroll; 14 grandchildren, 6 great-grandchildren; her siblings: Dr. Robert (June) Langenfeld of Carroll, and Sharon (Tom) Collison of Halbur; sister-in-law: Mary Ann (Dale) Huegerich of Exira; as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives and friends.

Sandy was preceded in death by her parents: Felix and Bernadette Langenfeld, and Jim’s parents: Francis and Ione Ulveling.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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Tribute Wall

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My Sincere sympathy to Sandy’s family. In the early 80’s while working a 3-11 shift, Sandy asked me to leave work and deliver some items a discharged patient had left behind. I was on duty and left the hospital to deliver the items only to get stopped for speeding and fined. Sandy knew I was upset and about the ticket. A couple of weeks later I found an envelope in my mailbox with the cash amount of the ticket. She told me the hospital paid my fine. (LOL). She denied having anything to do with it but deep down I know it was Sandy. This is one of many stories I could tell of her character. If we were to give her a report card on life, she would ace every subject. I will deeply miss her, but as she told me a couple of weeks ago, “Pray the good Lord takes me”. I know (now) she is at peace. RIP my friend.

Jeanne Boeckman – January 25 2019 at 3:20 PM

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Lit a candle in memory of Sandra Ulveling

Bonnie Malm – January 20 2019 at 6:28 PM

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Sincere sympathy to Jim and family. The Jahde & Ulveling families go back a long way and we have been so grateful for the care Sandy gave Maxine while she was in the nursing home. Rest in peace sweet Sandy! Tom & Pat Jahde

Tom & Pat Jahde – January 20 2019 at 11:24 PM

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Lit a candle in memory of Sandra Ulveling

Dick and Buttons Carpenter – January 21 2019 at 12:34 PM

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Deepest sympathy to Jim an the entire family!

Doug & Mari Polking – January 21 2019 at 7:25 PM

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