Obituary

Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Ruth Miller, 97 of Carroll, died Sunday, October 4, 2015 at the Hawkeye Care Center in Carroll, Iowa.

Funeral services will be held at 6 p.m. Saturday, October 10, 2015 at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with Fr. Craig Collison from St. Lawrence Church in Carroll officiating. Music will be by Brenda Ashley. Burial will be in the Carroll City Cemetery.

Ruth’s family will receive friends one hour prior to the service on Saturday at the funeral home.
Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Ruth’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Ruth was born on April 22, 1918 at Dexter, Missouri, the daughter of Clarence Joseph and Maude Mary (Mossman) McDowell. She spent her younger years in Missouri and later moved with her family to Whitefish, Montana. Following the passing of her parents, Ruth was adopted and raised by Mary and Ed Cookingham.

On February 18, 1937, Ruth was united in marriage to Raymond Miller at Los Angeles, California. The couple lived in rural Pipestone, Minnesota from 1942-1954. In 1954, Ray and Ruth purchased the Ben Franklin Store in Sioux City and operated the store until 1967 when they purchased Coast to Coast in Mapleton which they operated until their retirement in 1975.

The couple resided in Okoboji from 1972 until 1992 when they moved to the Carroll community. Ray and Ruth also spent 27 years wintering in Arizona. Ruth enjoyed knitting, crocheting, baking and spending time with her entire family.

Ruth is survived by her daughters: Pat Schebler and her husband Pete of Davenport, Judy Curry and her husband Dr. Lynn of Carroll, and Peggy Bata and her husband John of Urbandale; 13 grandchildren; 29 great-grandchildren; 5 great-great-grandchildren; as well as other extended relatives.

Ruth was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Raymond Miller in 2011; her daughter, Sharon Lohse and her husband Bill; her granddaughter, Susan Ludwig in 2011 as well as her siblings.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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One of my greatest memories was of Ruth always baking cookies. She was very welcoming n wanted you to have coffee n visit. Anne Witowski

Anne Witowski – October 05 2015 at 11:37 AM

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A beautiful person inside and out. Ruth had a heart of golld! She volunteered at RSVP for years and made a huge difference with her service! She always was busy and when she left, the back room looked amazing. We shared many good times and lots of laughter! I always admired her courage and strength. My sympathy to all her family....Deb Fahn

Debra Fahn – October 07 2015 at 8:17 AM

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To Ruth Miller's family, We are saddened to hear of the death of your Mother, Ruth. We will always treasure the neighborhood memories we had with Ruth & Ray on Benjamin St. Sitting outside chatting, the laughs and stories, the walks, Ruth was such a kind and beautiful lady with a twinkle in her eye and a great smile. Our thoughts and prayers to all of the family...Cathy & Keith Lawyer and family.

Cathy & Keith Lawyer – October 07 2015 at 9:31 AM

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I always enjoyed talking to Ruth. She was such a pleasant, interesting person. My sympathies for your loss, for it is a great loss even at her advanced age. It's the loss of the mother who raised you and the woman we knew.

Phyllis Maddox – October 09 2015 at 12:34 PM

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Grandma would send birthday cards that always had a letter on the back. It was great to get to read about her day or week. I still have most of them! Love you Grandma!!

Nicole Poling – October 10 2015 at 9:40 AM

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